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Showing posts with label top 10 best infant toys. Show all posts

Saturday, May 31, 2014

Lightweight infant car seat?




Vanessa


Hi there...
I'm looking for an infant car seat that is light weight &; won't outweigh me while my baby is inside of the carrier!
Small &; Cheap ish , I don't wanna spend too much on a car seat if their gonna use it not that long.
Something neutral for its for boys and girls cause we don't even know the sex yet.
I've went thru so many sites &; The seats I've found, are ugly, or just too bulky &; fat.
If you can help me awesome, if not please direct me somewhere that possibly can.?
Thanks.
Goodnite.
I am in the U.S.
So U.S. only please.



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I found this link that gave the lightest weighted ones for 2008, I don't expect they've changed much. Evenflo is around 10lbs, the Snugrides just 2 lbs heavier, and Chicco Key-fits about 9lbs as well. So I'd start there. Chicco isn't as cheap as the other two, but typically has higher weight limits so you can use it longer.

If I might give advice though... don't set your heart on a baby car seat carrier. Be adaptable. It's much easier to carry your baby in your arms than to try and maneuver the size of the carrier as well as the weight of it. Also, you can't put a carrier on a shopping cart, it's dangerous and has been recommended against for years but every day idiots keep putting it on top of the shopping cart. More recently, they've found that leaving a baby in the car seat for long periods of time can cause breathing problems, their oxygen levels drop. Add into this that people tend to bump the seat against the walls, on stairs, put it up on counters and it can fall, and you have a lot of things that can compromise the shell of the seat and make it less safe.

It just adds up to plenty of reasons not to really worry about carrying the seat anyway. Leave it in the car. The car seat is the best for in the car of course, but once you're out of the car a baby should lay flat (in a stroller or in a bed) or be in someone's arms (or a wrap, chest carrier, etc that would hold them in that similar fashion and is approved for newborn use.)

With my first, I used to carry her everywhere in the seat and I used to put it on top of shopping carts. I found out the danger from reading about it after I started having major back and shoulder pain from the carseat. With my son, we used an infant seat but didn't take it out of the car. I used an Ergo baby carrier when we went into stores or for walks and it was so much nicer than the car seat was. I'm pregnant again and looking back at that (I've given the seat to my sister and I don't trust her use of the seat to ask for it back, she took it out all the time and used it much more like a carrier) We've decided we're going to just go to a convertible car seat (Britax Boulevard 70, it will last until the baby is 70lbs so it's worth the cost since it'll basically be 7 years before we have to replace it...) If money is a concern, then I'd skip the infant seat and go right to a convertible and just leave it in the car.

Other wraps that are less expensive are like the Moby Wrap. I got my Ergo for 1/2 the normal cost on "Baby-steals.com" so that helped. Beware of rip-offs, but sometimes you can find a used one on ebay.

Add: It's amazing to me that Baby Trend doesn't say not to put on shopping carts. It's not a problem with the car seats, it's a problem with the design of the carts. You simply can't put the car seat up top and not expect a tip-over. Scary.

To make it clear, I'm not saying to go Britax Convertible, that's just what we're planning on doing because we have a good history with them holding up well. There are cheaper convertibles like the Scenera which will rear-face to a good weight, or things like the Graco My-Ride or other seats that will rear-face to 35-40lbs and forward to 65+lbs. If you have time, watch sales and you can usually count on getting 10-25% off. You might even want to watch garage sales and pick up a bouncer or something that someone is getting rid of cheap that you can take to Toys R Us if they have a trade-in event (usually they have 1-2 in a year and will take any used item then you get 25% off towards whatever you buy including seats. Combine this with their baby registry 10% off...)

Pl suggest toys or activities for an 8 month boy?




vs2008


My son will turn 8 months old in a few days. He has had a bouncy chair, play mat, books and variety of soft toys at home. He also likes to play with cell phone and TV remote as well as being shown colorful books. He has a jumperoo and lots of toys at the daycare. I am wondering if I should get a jumperoo for the weekend (at home). Does he need a swing?
What other toys would be stimulating for him for the coming months and year. If you have a suggestion, do let me know. My son likes playing with us, so I and my husband spend a lot of time going out for walks, swinging him around, singing and reading him books. What else should be fun for him?
Any suggestions you may have are welcome.
Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving.



Answer
Blow bubbles.

Balls (one of those tiny plastic pools and some ball pit balls (you can buy them at Wal Mart) is inexpensive and fun!

A swing, but not the infant kind (he is probably outgrowing that by now). My 6 month old LOVES to swing- we have the Little Tikes kind (we have a dolphin that is in like-new condition and we got it for our oldest child's first birthday, and she is almost 13 now) that looks like a dolphin. They also have airplane ones and ones that are not shaped but just as durable.

Look at One Step Ahead (dot com) and request a catalog. They have an indoor swing that you can hang in a doorframe like you do a Johnny Jumper. They have other indoor swings/slides and toys for infants.

My son will be 8 months old the day after Christmas, and I am getting him something from Toys R Us that looks like a shopping cart. He can push it around like a walker, but the top, front and sides have different activities such as a bead maze.

Play games such as Peek-A-Boo and do motions such as Itsy Bitsy Spider.

I recommend music- I love the Cedarmont Kids cds (they have lullabies, nursery rhymes, songs for babies, toddlers and older children. They also have Christmas music). I also have the Build Your Baby's Brain cds which I like (classical music) and my babies have liked as well.

Get one of those baby proof picture albums and put pictures in of various loved ones- you, dad, grandparents, etc.

A non-breakable mirror.

A wagon is my most recommended gift suggestion. Even my 12 year old and 10 year olds still play with our various wagons. You can pull your son now, later he can use it to pull his toys (or younger siblings!), and they come in handy when going to the park or beach to haul the necessities.




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Tuesday, May 13, 2014

Best convertable infant car seat for compact car?




T P


My daughter is 9 months and about 18 pounds(preemie) and is quickly outgrowing hergraco carrier.I have a small car- a 2 door hatch back Ford Focus,so my main issue is finding one that will fit my car.
Anyone have any suggestions for a good,small convertable car seat? Id like to be able to use it for a long time and dont want to have to buy another any time soon.

Thanks!



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Car accidents are the #1 killer of children under age 12. Another person said that the American Academy of Pediatrics recommends to age 2 and the NHSTA recommends until age 3. I believe that all children should rearface as long as possible. This also means that you should keep on buying a higher weight limit rearfacing seat.

5 children in the United States die every single day due to incorrect use of car seats or not using car seats at all.

I would recommend any car seat that fits your vehicle, your child, and is used correctly each and every time.

To achieve this, car seats must be installed with less than one inch of movement from side to side. 1 inch is the maximum amount of movement. I would get the car seat in your car rock solid. The car seat fits your child (when rearfacing) when the harness straps are at and below your childs armpit level AND when the child's head is one inch away from the shell. If the child's head is above the car seat, then the child will be exposed to injury because our American seats are not tethered rearfacing and they do not have foot props to prevent downward rotational force.

Please note that since your daughter is now 9 months old, her convertible car seat can be installed at a more upright angle.

I would recommend the Radian RXT or R120 as this can rearface up to 45 lbs and has a top slot of 17.5 inches. It is an extremely narrow seat, so if you ever need to fit three car seats in a row, this is the car seat for you. But anyhow, the amount of room it takes up is a little extreme, which can be remedied by installing at in at a more upright angle in the middle seat as the car seat could fit between the 2 front seats, but the downside is that you may be unable to install the car seat in the center seat with LATCH. LATCH is basically metal hooks that hold crash forces of a car seat and the car seat is attached to the car by these hooks, instead of using the seat belt. If your car manual doesn't say that you can use latch in the center seating position, then you CANNOT use latch. Latch anchors are connected to each other and will fail. I would go to toys r us and test out the seat in your 2 door vehicle.

Rear facing seats:
Radian RXT (45 lbs rear facing)
Britax Marathon, Boulevard, or Advocate- (16.75 inch top slot as advertized by britax and up to 40 lbs rearfacing) I'm not sure if I would recommend the use for a small car because they are extremely bulky, but if you could get it to fit, it would install like a breeze due to the lock off it has built in.
Safety First Compass True Fit- has an 18" high top slot (up to 40 lbs rear facing)

I wanted to let you know that the Swedish have the lowest child fatalities in car accidents because of their rear facing car seats. They rear face their children up to 4 or 5 years of age or whenever the child outgrows their rear facing seats. Their seats go up to 50 or 55 lbs! They accomplish this by having 2 rearfacing tethers and a foot prop to accomodate larger taller children. Because of the foot prop and tethers, taller children are able to use the seat until the tips of the ears are even with the headrest or shell. American seats will never be able to accomplish this weight limit because they are not allowed by US Standards to have support from the seat with tethers and foot props. The rules is that the seat must be able to measure up to standards with only the seat belt supporting it. There have been only 5 or so cases of children in Sweden who have died in a car crash in a span of 2 years! Rear facing is safest and is meant for everyone!

Also, Swedish car seats can be installed at up to 10 degrees from vertical, to allow more room. It is actually slightly safer to be at a more upright angle. The only reason why newborns are at 45 degrees, is to support their necks.

Christians, are you aware of the dangers of toy wizards? Behold Sparlock, and tremble!!!!!!!!!?

Q. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8jGJxSky1fo

This link goes to a JW film telling of the dangers of toy wizards. No joke.
Who else teaches this?


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I agree with Doctor Frog

You have jumped the Gun on the Witnesses and leaked their top secret video. Well it is a huge improvement from their Paradise book with graphic pictures of
Death By flood
Death by plagues
death by armageddon
Cain Killing Able
Wise King Solomon getting ready to cut an infant in half
Abraham in the process of preparing to slaughter Isaac

http://gypsyscholarship.blogspot.com/2007/10/watchtower-society-from-paradise-lost.html




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Wednesday, April 30, 2014

Pl suggest toys or activities for an 8 month boy?




vs2008


My son will turn 8 months old in a few days. He has had a bouncy chair, play mat, books and variety of soft toys at home. He also likes to play with cell phone and TV remote as well as being shown colorful books. He has a jumperoo and lots of toys at the daycare. I am wondering if I should get a jumperoo for the weekend (at home). Does he need a swing?
What other toys would be stimulating for him for the coming months and year. If you have a suggestion, do let me know. My son likes playing with us, so I and my husband spend a lot of time going out for walks, swinging him around, singing and reading him books. What else should be fun for him?
Any suggestions you may have are welcome.
Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving.



Answer
Blow bubbles.

Balls (one of those tiny plastic pools and some ball pit balls (you can buy them at Wal Mart) is inexpensive and fun!

A swing, but not the infant kind (he is probably outgrowing that by now). My 6 month old LOVES to swing- we have the Little Tikes kind (we have a dolphin that is in like-new condition and we got it for our oldest child's first birthday, and she is almost 13 now) that looks like a dolphin. They also have airplane ones and ones that are not shaped but just as durable.

Look at One Step Ahead (dot com) and request a catalog. They have an indoor swing that you can hang in a doorframe like you do a Johnny Jumper. They have other indoor swings/slides and toys for infants.

My son will be 8 months old the day after Christmas, and I am getting him something from Toys R Us that looks like a shopping cart. He can push it around like a walker, but the top, front and sides have different activities such as a bead maze.

Play games such as Peek-A-Boo and do motions such as Itsy Bitsy Spider.

I recommend music- I love the Cedarmont Kids cds (they have lullabies, nursery rhymes, songs for babies, toddlers and older children. They also have Christmas music). I also have the Build Your Baby's Brain cds which I like (classical music) and my babies have liked as well.

Get one of those baby proof picture albums and put pictures in of various loved ones- you, dad, grandparents, etc.

A non-breakable mirror.

A wagon is my most recommended gift suggestion. Even my 12 year old and 10 year olds still play with our various wagons. You can pull your son now, later he can use it to pull his toys (or younger siblings!), and they come in handy when going to the park or beach to haul the necessities.

My son is on top of the growth chart...?

Q. The doctor told me my 10 1/2 month old is on top of the growth chart and is bigger then most kids his age. He's not concerned about his weight or anything though.

My son hasnt started crawling, walking, or pulling himself onto things. Could this be why? Because he's bigger? Should I be concerned about him not crawling yet? Or concerned about anything?


Answer
He is a late crawler, but not yet late on walking / cruising.

Big heads make babies walk later. But big babies can crawl just as soon as little babies.

People hate hearing this sometimes, but does he get lots of floor time? I mean on his back and on his belly on the floor. If a baby is worn constantly and also cosleeps they can do these things rather late do to limited practice and motivation. It isn't only do to being worn. Too much time in swings, jumpers, exersaucers etc. is also going to delay these things. They are seeing this more and more with infants as there are more "riding" type toys and more people wearing babies as well.

When a baby is laying down on their own (mom can watch close by of course!) is when they learn these skills.

But regardless, your boy is just a bit behind on the crawling, and just not ahead on cruising. Give him lots of floor time, and put a favorite toy just out of his reach.




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Traveling with an infant on Planes ?




LoveFaithH


I'm taking my 6 month year old on a 4 hour flight and i'm kinda of nervous. anyone have experiences or suggestions. thanks


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1.) If possible, buy a seat for your child. Here I talk about it's importance:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AuzCyPcceRfxbsmok0f_jRPty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081016015002AASP55j&show=7#profile-info-qgIGOJQOaa

2.) Pack plenty of things to entertain your baby. A few soft toys, a comfort blankie, etc.

2.) You are allowed to take a stroller with you for your journey, and it will not count towards your checked baggage limit. All airlines differ on what kind of stroller you are allowed to take, but all allow an umbrella stroller.Check with your airline to see if they will allow a bigger one. Here is a link that talks about the procedure for gate checking your stroller:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AnKvCt1q1JVJISfMQUsXcyPty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081005224258AAmgcGm&show=7#profile-info-942f313b2c81b37310c7808f5ed1d1a9aa

3.) Liquid and powder formula, milk, juice, baby food, and water are allowed in quantities over 3oz (100ml). Here is a link that will give you all the details:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=ApaVhxxUaNiiEsDfths2ADjty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20081002064751AAqUtKH&show=7#profile-info-Y3IuVmeiaa

4.) Many parents are concerned about pressure changes in their childs ears, but honesty, I've never had problems with my children. In fact, not all children have problems with pressure changes in their ears. The "popping" is what helps to equalize the pressure changes, so it is actually the result you want. What you do *not* want, is for them not to be able to "pop" their ears.

Make sure your child has a check-up with the doctor to ensure s/he is healthy enough to fly. Doctors recommend that anyone sick (stuffed up or already having an earache), not take the flight. My husband and other pilots do not work if they are sick. If your child seems to have problems equalizing pressure in his/her ears, here are some ways to help:

For take-offs and landings (the WHOLE way up, and starting from the BEGINNING, or TOP of descent - about an hour before landing), the best ways to alleviate ear pressure are to:

1. If your child is nursing, nurse him/her
2. Give him/her something to drink (formula, juice, water - it doesn't matter)
3. Give him/her a pacifier to suck on
4. Place hot damp towels (usually like the ones distributed to first and business class before take-off and landing to freshen up with - just ask a flight attendant for them) or paper towels that have been soaked in hot water and wrung out, at the bottom of two paper or styrofoam cups, then hold the cups over the ears
5. Gently but with some pressure, rub his/her neck repeatedly from the chin to the base of the neck. This will cause a swallowing motion that will relieve pressure build-up in the ears.
6. Give him something to eat.

6.) Other tips:
-Keep your diaper bag well stocked with what you will need
-Be sure to pack 2-3 changes of clothes for your child
-Bring any medications that you might need for your child should s/he get sick or that s/he takes regularly.
-Don't be afraid to get up and walk the aisles with your child
-Keep your calm. If you get stressed out, your child can pick up on it and it will make the travel that much harder
-Do NOT plan on giving your child medicine with the hopes of it making him/her sleep on the plane. This is not only cruel, but dangerous as well.
-Last but not least, if help is offered to you, take it

I've been flying internationally & domestically with my children since they were each 2 months (now 9&6, 11 months and currently pregnant with #4). At least three trips a year are the children & I traveling internationally (14+ hours each way) alone. We do another 8-10 international & domestic flights a year as a family. Due to this, I have written a small article about flying with children that goes more in-depth, gives up to date security rules & regulations for the US, EU, UK, & Australia, offers tips & tricks for the travel, etc.
http://www.angelfire.com/jamiehassen79/flying_children.html


If I can be of any more help or assistance, please feel free to contact me.

my infant does not like to be left alone AT ALL?

Q. my son is 10 months old and for almost all of his life he does not like to be left alone in a room. we cant leave the room without him SCREAMING to the top of his lungs. he wont sit in his crib and just play. i cant even use the bathroom by myself because he can NOT be alone. i was reading about children with attachment disorders but i am unsure if this is what the problem is..has anyone ever experienced this with their children or does anyone know what i could do to help him feel comfort with being left alone?


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@Jeremy - you literally just made me cry! You physically discipline a child for expressing their emotions?!?!?!!! What is wrong with you!! They are a CHILD not a DOG!! I hate think of what the consequence would be for spilling milk, or forgetting a toy out, what 50 lashes on the back with a iron rod?? That is the most terrible thing I have ever heard! I could never imagine hitting my child for crying! WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU!!! I am just dumbfounded right now..... OhMiGod, it just makes me sick...


Anyway to answer the question. More than likely when your son was younger you didnt take care of his needs quick enough and he never developed a good sence of trust. So when you leave the room he honestly doesn't know if you will ever come back. Best thing to do is show him you will. If you leave and he starts to cry go back immediately, if he wants to be picked up do it, take vare of his needs before he starts crying. This way he will learn that no matter what you will always be there for him. Once he learns that he won't care where go, cuz he knows you will always come back.




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Monday, April 7, 2014

will it ruin my electric blanket to sleep on top of it?




aking54220


i just bought an electric blanket and told some people that i put it under my fitted sheets (personal pref i guess) these people just about died saying that i was going to ruin it in no time. but this is also from people who dont know that elec blankets now a days are also washable. are they right, will i ruin it if i sleep on top of it??


Answer
I pulled some safety issues about electric blankets from the fire deparmetnt information web site. Half way down it say never lay or sit on an electric blacket for you can damage the blanket coils and cause a fire.

damaged blanket, however, can easily become an ignition source for a fire. Electric blankets that are too hot or kept on one area of the body for too long also pose a real threat for burns. This is especially a concern for infants, the elderly, or anyone who might have difficulty sensing hot temperatures or moving the blanket if it gets too hot.

The City of Fairfax Fire Department offers the following recommendations for using electric blankets safely:

⢠Only use electric blankets that have been approved by nationally recognized testing agencies (like Underwriters Laboratories, Inc.).

⢠Always buy new electric blankets; second-hand blankets may not be safe.

⢠Replace all electric blankets that are more than 10 years old. Most fires caused by electric blankets are caused by those older than 10 years.

⢠Replace any electric blanket that is worn or torn, where the electric cord is frayed, or where the temperature control is damaged.

⢠Turn your electric blanket off when not in use. Many older models have no internal temperature control to shut the blanket off when it gets too hot; if your blanket has no such internal control, consider replacing it with a newer model.

⢠Turn your electric blanket off before you go to sleep (unless the blanket is made specifically to be used all night).

⢠Refrain from using more than one electric blanket (or heating pad) at a time. Do not use electric blankets and heating pads together. The heat generated by the combined appliances can cause serious burns.

⢠Do not plug your electric blanket into an outlet that is controlled by a light switch; the blanket could be switched on accidentally.

⢠Do not pile toys, pillows, blankets, or other materials on top of an electric blanket or tuck electric blankets underneath mattresses or other items; excessive heat may build up to the point where the blanket could ignite.

⢠Do not sit or lay on top of an electric blanket; this may damage the blanketâs internal coils and expose the heating element to combustible fabric.

⢠Never ball up an electric blanket up and leave it on; excessive heat may build up to the point where the blanket could ignite.

⢠Unplug your blanket if you smell smoke or if any scorching is evident; discoloration of the blanket may indicate that it is burning internally.

⢠Never wash an electric blanket; the twisting, tugging, and turning action of the washing machine will damage the internal coils.

⢠Do not dry clean electric blankets; the chemicals used in the cleaning process may damage the heating insulation and increase the risk of fire.

⢠Ideally, electric blankets should be stored flat. If that is not possible, roll it up or fold it with as few creases as possible; be careful when folding the blanket to protect the internal coils.

⢠Replace any blanket where the embedded heating wires have been displaced or damaged. Check by holding the blanket up to light; the wires should be evenly spaced and not touch each other anywhere.

⢠Never use an electric blanket that is wet; do not turn an electric blanket on to dry it out. Refrain from using electric blankets and hot water bottles together.

If you have any doubt about the safety of your electric blanket, discontinue using it. It can still be used as a regular blanket, without plugging it in.

US Airways travel with infant?




robin s


I will be flying from San Diego to Grand Junction Colorado with my 3 month old daughter. I have a few questions, I will just list them, and if you have answers or advice for any, please share:

Can I bring my stroller and is that considered a carry on?

I cannot breast feed and have to pump every six hours, can I bring my medela electric pump on the plane or do I have to check it..and if I check it, will it be safe from damage?

My car seat comes with the carseat base..can I bring that?

I paid for her to have her own seat, does that she means she can have carry on's and checked luggage as well?

Will somebody help me to get to the next flight after the layover?

Anything else I should know?



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You can take the stroller to the gate and it will be gate checked. Then you will be able to collect it as soon as you get off the plane. It may take a while to get there, so no need to rush off the plane. The stroller will not be counted as a carry on item.

I do not see any reason why you cannot take your pump on the plane. If you do check it, make sure it is well padded and it should be ok.

If you paid for a seat for your daughter you need to take the car seat base on since you will fix the seat in the same way as you do in the car. Remember that when the car seat base is attached to the car seat, it is a lot heavier than when you are just carrying the car seat by itself.

Your daughter gets the same luggage allowance as you since you paid for her seat. I would try to keep your carry on to one since that is all you will be able to manage with the car seat!

Do not rely on someone to help you get to your next flight, even if the airline say this is possible. We booked a wheelchair for my father-in-law one time and when he got there he was told that there was no one available to help him!! You need to only take enough pieces of luggage that you can do it by yourself. Push the stroller with one hand, pull a roll-along bag with the other and have a back-pack diaper bag. You need to find a way of either fitting the car seat base in the basket under your stroller, ot attaching it (with bungy cords or similar) to the stroller.

When I travelled with my children at this age, I used the Baby Trend Snap'N'Go infant seat carrier and I could balance the car seat base on top of the basket. I think I used the latch system belt to keep it on there!

You did the right thing getting a seat for your daughter. It is safer for her and more comfortable for both of you. Make sure her car seat says on it that it is FAA approved and put it in the plane rear facing the same as it is in the car. You will need to make sure that you have a window seat for her (so you don't block anyone else's exit) If you can get a bulk head seat that is the best, if not then unfortunately the person in front of her will not be able to put their seat back, on a short flight this should not be a problem. Just stand your ground if the person complains, your daughters safety is more important than that persons comfort!

Try to get your daughter to take a bottle during take-off and landing, although if she is asleep don't wake her to do it! They are also the most important times for her to be strapped in her seat. Since she is facing backwards, you will be able to see her and interact with her well. Take a few of her favorite toys to play with when she is awake.

Other than carrying the car seat (and bottles etc) this is probably the easiest time to travel with a baby. I am just about to do a 10 hour flight with my 2 children aged 18 months and nearly 3 years! I have managed to devise a way that I can carry 2 car seats and everything else by myself, just in case I do not get any help!

Good luck!!




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Wednesday, April 2, 2014

Lightweight infant car seat?




Vanessa


Hi there...
I'm looking for an infant car seat that is light weight &; won't outweigh me while my baby is inside of the carrier!
Small &; Cheap ish , I don't wanna spend too much on a car seat if their gonna use it not that long.
Something neutral for its for boys and girls cause we don't even know the sex yet.
I've went thru so many sites &; The seats I've found, are ugly, or just too bulky &; fat.
If you can help me awesome, if not please direct me somewhere that possibly can.?
Thanks.
Goodnite.
I am in the U.S.
So U.S. only please.



Answer
I found this link that gave the lightest weighted ones for 2008, I don't expect they've changed much. Evenflo is around 10lbs, the Snugrides just 2 lbs heavier, and Chicco Key-fits about 9lbs as well. So I'd start there. Chicco isn't as cheap as the other two, but typically has higher weight limits so you can use it longer.

If I might give advice though... don't set your heart on a baby car seat carrier. Be adaptable. It's much easier to carry your baby in your arms than to try and maneuver the size of the carrier as well as the weight of it. Also, you can't put a carrier on a shopping cart, it's dangerous and has been recommended against for years but every day idiots keep putting it on top of the shopping cart. More recently, they've found that leaving a baby in the car seat for long periods of time can cause breathing problems, their oxygen levels drop. Add into this that people tend to bump the seat against the walls, on stairs, put it up on counters and it can fall, and you have a lot of things that can compromise the shell of the seat and make it less safe.

It just adds up to plenty of reasons not to really worry about carrying the seat anyway. Leave it in the car. The car seat is the best for in the car of course, but once you're out of the car a baby should lay flat (in a stroller or in a bed) or be in someone's arms (or a wrap, chest carrier, etc that would hold them in that similar fashion and is approved for newborn use.)

With my first, I used to carry her everywhere in the seat and I used to put it on top of shopping carts. I found out the danger from reading about it after I started having major back and shoulder pain from the carseat. With my son, we used an infant seat but didn't take it out of the car. I used an Ergo baby carrier when we went into stores or for walks and it was so much nicer than the car seat was. I'm pregnant again and looking back at that (I've given the seat to my sister and I don't trust her use of the seat to ask for it back, she took it out all the time and used it much more like a carrier) We've decided we're going to just go to a convertible car seat (Britax Boulevard 70, it will last until the baby is 70lbs so it's worth the cost since it'll basically be 7 years before we have to replace it...) If money is a concern, then I'd skip the infant seat and go right to a convertible and just leave it in the car.

Other wraps that are less expensive are like the Moby Wrap. I got my Ergo for 1/2 the normal cost on "Baby-steals.com" so that helped. Beware of rip-offs, but sometimes you can find a used one on ebay.

Add: It's amazing to me that Baby Trend doesn't say not to put on shopping carts. It's not a problem with the car seats, it's a problem with the design of the carts. You simply can't put the car seat up top and not expect a tip-over. Scary.

To make it clear, I'm not saying to go Britax Convertible, that's just what we're planning on doing because we have a good history with them holding up well. There are cheaper convertibles like the Scenera which will rear-face to a good weight, or things like the Graco My-Ride or other seats that will rear-face to 35-40lbs and forward to 65+lbs. If you have time, watch sales and you can usually count on getting 10-25% off. You might even want to watch garage sales and pick up a bouncer or something that someone is getting rid of cheap that you can take to Toys R Us if they have a trade-in event (usually they have 1-2 in a year and will take any used item then you get 25% off towards whatever you buy including seats. Combine this with their baby registry 10% off...)

Pl suggest toys or activities for an 8 month boy?




vs2008


My son will turn 8 months old in a few days. He has had a bouncy chair, play mat, books and variety of soft toys at home. He also likes to play with cell phone and TV remote as well as being shown colorful books. He has a jumperoo and lots of toys at the daycare. I am wondering if I should get a jumperoo for the weekend (at home). Does he need a swing?
What other toys would be stimulating for him for the coming months and year. If you have a suggestion, do let me know. My son likes playing with us, so I and my husband spend a lot of time going out for walks, swinging him around, singing and reading him books. What else should be fun for him?
Any suggestions you may have are welcome.
Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving.



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Blow bubbles.

Balls (one of those tiny plastic pools and some ball pit balls (you can buy them at Wal Mart) is inexpensive and fun!

A swing, but not the infant kind (he is probably outgrowing that by now). My 6 month old LOVES to swing- we have the Little Tikes kind (we have a dolphin that is in like-new condition and we got it for our oldest child's first birthday, and she is almost 13 now) that looks like a dolphin. They also have airplane ones and ones that are not shaped but just as durable.

Look at One Step Ahead (dot com) and request a catalog. They have an indoor swing that you can hang in a doorframe like you do a Johnny Jumper. They have other indoor swings/slides and toys for infants.

My son will be 8 months old the day after Christmas, and I am getting him something from Toys R Us that looks like a shopping cart. He can push it around like a walker, but the top, front and sides have different activities such as a bead maze.

Play games such as Peek-A-Boo and do motions such as Itsy Bitsy Spider.

I recommend music- I love the Cedarmont Kids cds (they have lullabies, nursery rhymes, songs for babies, toddlers and older children. They also have Christmas music). I also have the Build Your Baby's Brain cds which I like (classical music) and my babies have liked as well.

Get one of those baby proof picture albums and put pictures in of various loved ones- you, dad, grandparents, etc.

A non-breakable mirror.

A wagon is my most recommended gift suggestion. Even my 12 year old and 10 year olds still play with our various wagons. You can pull your son now, later he can use it to pull his toys (or younger siblings!), and they come in handy when going to the park or beach to haul the necessities.




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Thursday, February 6, 2014

Pl suggest toys or activities for an 8 month boy?




vs2008


My son will turn 8 months old in a few days. He has had a bouncy chair, play mat, books and variety of soft toys at home. He also likes to play with cell phone and TV remote as well as being shown colorful books. He has a jumperoo and lots of toys at the daycare. I am wondering if I should get a jumperoo for the weekend (at home). Does he need a swing?
What other toys would be stimulating for him for the coming months and year. If you have a suggestion, do let me know. My son likes playing with us, so I and my husband spend a lot of time going out for walks, swinging him around, singing and reading him books. What else should be fun for him?
Any suggestions you may have are welcome.
Thanks and Happy Thanksgiving.



Answer
Blow bubbles.

Balls (one of those tiny plastic pools and some ball pit balls (you can buy them at Wal Mart) is inexpensive and fun!

A swing, but not the infant kind (he is probably outgrowing that by now). My 6 month old LOVES to swing- we have the Little Tikes kind (we have a dolphin that is in like-new condition and we got it for our oldest child's first birthday, and she is almost 13 now) that looks like a dolphin. They also have airplane ones and ones that are not shaped but just as durable.

Look at One Step Ahead (dot com) and request a catalog. They have an indoor swing that you can hang in a doorframe like you do a Johnny Jumper. They have other indoor swings/slides and toys for infants.

My son will be 8 months old the day after Christmas, and I am getting him something from Toys R Us that looks like a shopping cart. He can push it around like a walker, but the top, front and sides have different activities such as a bead maze.

Play games such as Peek-A-Boo and do motions such as Itsy Bitsy Spider.

I recommend music- I love the Cedarmont Kids cds (they have lullabies, nursery rhymes, songs for babies, toddlers and older children. They also have Christmas music). I also have the Build Your Baby's Brain cds which I like (classical music) and my babies have liked as well.

Get one of those baby proof picture albums and put pictures in of various loved ones- you, dad, grandparents, etc.

A non-breakable mirror.

A wagon is my most recommended gift suggestion. Even my 12 year old and 10 year olds still play with our various wagons. You can pull your son now, later he can use it to pull his toys (or younger siblings!), and they come in handy when going to the park or beach to haul the necessities.

My son is on top of the growth chart...?




Coltons mo


The doctor told me my 10 1/2 month old is on top of the growth chart and is bigger then most kids his age. He's not concerned about his weight or anything though.

My son hasnt started crawling, walking, or pulling himself onto things. Could this be why? Because he's bigger? Should I be concerned about him not crawling yet? Or concerned about anything?



Answer
He is a late crawler, but not yet late on walking / cruising.

Big heads make babies walk later. But big babies can crawl just as soon as little babies.

People hate hearing this sometimes, but does he get lots of floor time? I mean on his back and on his belly on the floor. If a baby is worn constantly and also cosleeps they can do these things rather late do to limited practice and motivation. It isn't only do to being worn. Too much time in swings, jumpers, exersaucers etc. is also going to delay these things. They are seeing this more and more with infants as there are more "riding" type toys and more people wearing babies as well.

When a baby is laying down on their own (mom can watch close by of course!) is when they learn these skills.

But regardless, your boy is just a bit behind on the crawling, and just not ahead on cruising. Give him lots of floor time, and put a favorite toy just out of his reach.




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Monday, May 6, 2013

Why do women choose to bottle feed over breastfeeding? Why dont women fight back against outlawing the breast?

Q. ::iam NOT trying to sound like a le leche freak, or post holier than thou questions::

Health reasons aside, why choose bottles over breast?

I jsut got done reading something with the world census thing, and doing a little research. America has the HIGHEST infant mortality rate of all the industrialized nations. Thats insane, and they say its because all other countries tend to have much higher rates of breastfeeding verses formula.

I think its unfair that hospitals and doctors dont provide education and support to moms. Every mom wants to provide the very best, and its not fair that commercial entities and cultural taboo's are allowed to steal the best from our children.

On top of all that, some states and counties are MAKING IT ILLEGAL to nurse in public.. WTF?!

It just bothers me that we cant provide the best.

People in saudi arabia have healthier babies than us for cripes sake. Theres something wrong here.
Honestly i have to admit that I decided to nurse because it was cheaper. It wasnt until my son was born and I was crying in pain with every feeding that I researched it and found out how good it is and decided to tough it out.

So its not like I did it for his sake in the start. I was just one of those uneducated masses. Because no one offers education on this stuff. I had to google it on my own.

A. Bless you for writing this!
I made a big mistake with our son and breastfeeding/colic
I was uneducated with our son- though I thought I was. He took right to breastfeeding. He did well- but he had colic while I was nursing him. I changed my diet, watched what I ate- and still he had colic. I was told by our ped. at that time that "breastfed babies don't get colic". He handed us some soy formula and said "this will work." So, I listened- BIG MISTAKE- HUGE!!! Our baby cried for 5 hours when I was nursing him every night. On soy- he cried for 18 hours a day. I didn't know that you could put them back on the breast. I didn't know that the breastmilk would make it easier for him with colic. I had thought it was me and my milk that was causing him problems. I swore that any baby that we had following would be breastfed- and have done so. Our baby is just a year old and is still breastfed- 3 times a day. She has only been sick one time- she caught pink eye from me. She is far ahead on the charts for development.

So, some of it is lack of education.
Some of it is our perception of breasts in America- they are veiwed as "sexual objects" instead of as what they are for- to feed our babies.

Women are frowned upon for nursing past the first year.
Women are frowned upon for nursing in public. I will nurse our baby when and wherever she needs to eat.

For some women it is hard to nurse- they have pain. It is NORMAL and it passes.

Others have milk supply issues- these can be fixed. Still, it is O.K. to combine formula with breastmilk once baby is on the breast and is accostomed to the feeds.

Breastfeeding is easy- it is always ready.

Initially, babies want to nurse all the time. THIS PASSES! The first 6 weeks are the hardest- but it goes so fast.

I guess if I lived in an area that had laws passed not to nurse in public, I would get arrested. I have heard people say, "Nurse in your car." Sure- in 95 degree heat- IS THAT WISE??? Or, here in NY- in the freezing cold. Crazy!

Or: Nurse in the bathroom- nice- would you want to eat in a smelly bathroom???

Once, when nursing our baby in Toys R Us a family from India passed- they had a 5 month old baby and an older son. The dad and I had a nice talk- as I sat there covered and nursing our baby who was only 8 weeks old. He said that in his country women who are nursing are worshipped because they are passing on the next generations health and well-being. He told me not to hide in an aisle. I felt so good after talking to him and his wife. He was offended by the views on women who nurse in this country- and could not comprehend it.

Likewise, it is frowned upon to nurse here in public- when nothing can be seen. I had that experience recently- and it's the very thought that a baby is nursing under a blanket that is just a horrid thought to some- ridiculous! I receive more dirty looks from women than from men.

Many doctors are also not pushing breastfeeding- as did ours 10 years ago. If someone had told me, "he has colic- but he'd have it anyway, KEEP NURSING..." I would have. I didn't have the support or the internet to help.

NOTE: I work full-time and have been nursing for a year- I pump 3 times at work and once before I leave. Both babies were tongue-tied- our youngest still is and nursed fine.

So...good for you for bringing this up- and thanks for listening!


What are the most popular toys to get this year?
Q. I don't have any kids so I'm just curious what they are.

A. Top Toy for Girls: Digi-Makeover Interactive Make-up Kit

Top Toy for Boys: Air Hogs Radio-Controlled Storm Launcher

Top Toy for Teens: Nintendo Wii

Top Seasonal Toy: Fisher-Price Little People Children's Nativity Set

Top Toy for Family Play Time: Cosmic Catch

Top Infant Learning Toy: V.Smile Baby from VTech

Top Toy Girl 3-5: Baby Alive Doll

Top Toy Boy 3-5: Kid-Tough Digital Camera from Fisher-Price

Top Toy Girl 6-9: Amazing Allyson

Top Toy Boy 6-9: ESPN Fast Action Footbal

Top Toy Girl 10+: Designer's World Plug n' Play TV Game

Top Toy Boy 10+: Fly Wheels XPV (Xtreme Performance Vehicle)


What do I need to get ready for a newborn baby this winter?
Q. What are the most important items that an expectant new mother would need to get in order to prepair for a newborn baby boy or girl, and when should I start buying these items?

A. I have 3 lil ones age 10 years, 5 years and 9 months. These were my top items ...

1. Boppy (amazing for breast or bottle feeding)

2. Swaddler blankets...they make cotton ones or fleece ones depending on the time of year. I've used both and they are GREAT. Make baby feel all wrapped up and comfortable

3. Lots of soft onsies or pajamas. Newborns tend to be even smaller then you think they will be. I would suggest getting at least 1 or 2 preemie size. All my babies were normal average size ..and they still needed preemie size for the first week or 2.

4. Depending on where you are going to have baby sleeping you will need something. My favorite was a bassinet. I could keep it close to my bed for all those late night feedings. Plus i felt better having them near me where i could hear them breathe. Plus most bassinets are moveable so you can move it to a different room if you want to watch them as they nap.

5. DIAPERS DIAPERS DIAPERS. Whether you choose disposable or cloth you should have LOTS of them. If you are going for disposable i would say get 2 packs of newborn size with the umbilical cord cutout spot. Then a few big packs of size 1 and lots of BABY WIPES!! Can't have to many of these ...

6. A diaper bag for all your needs ...diapers, change of clothes, diaper cream..wipes...bottles if you go that route..a pacifier (if you decide to use one) etc...

7. Blankets...receiving blankets, thicker blankets...muslin swaddler blankets...sheets for crib/bassinet...

8. Cloth diapers for everything...i bought the birdseye cloth diapers and used them as spit up rags..chew on rags...whatever you may need them for they are super absorbant and easy to wash!

9. Some type of lil baby tub w/ sling for newborn babies ...washclothes...and some type of new baby wash

10. MUST HAVE INFANT CAR SEAT. You cannot bring baby home from the hospital without a car seat. You can get one that matches and attached to a stroller (travel system) as well if you would like.

The rest is mainly lil clothes you like...the fun stuff just cause you wanna have it =) toys ...adorable lil socks...etc...HATS ..would be good for a winter baby...baby towels...bottles if you go that route...

I loved having a swing for my babies...and a rocker bouncy seat thing...a safe place to set baby when you can't hold them 24/7

its also good to have a "first aid" kit..thermometer...baby nail clippers...nose syringe...they usually come in a kit with hairbrushes and all that.

As far as when to buy these things...you can start as early as you like. I stocked up on a lot throught the pregnancy when i would see things i liked on sale.

HAVE FUN!!!! GOOD LUCK!!!





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