When infant has a cold?

FloridaGir

My almost 10 month old has cold symptoms and I was told that I am making his cold worse because I keep my a/c on 77 (its not hot or cold inside) that its too hot in the apartment so germs spread. So, I want to know if baby has no fever but has a cold is it true that I should put my a/c down to super cold?

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Babies get used to what you are used to. Don't worry about the thermostat. Germs spread from poor hand-washing practices (e.g., feeding after diaper changing and not washing hands) or exchanging fluids (like sharing cups or kissing on the mouth). Clean all the toys with a solution of bleach and water or use disinfecting wipes and allow to completely dry before baby can play with them again. Sometimes what you think is a cold is actually regular sinus drainage or allergies (which could start showing up by 10 months). Try using a humidifier (if you are in a dry area). If the outdoor temp isn't too cold, you can also open windows at night to help with congestion.

Tips needed for traveling with Infant & Toddler?

Busy Mommy

My husband and I are planning on taking our 2 year old (28 months) and our 10 month old on a 1500 mile trip...driving. Any tips on how to keep them happy and comfortable for this 24 hour drive (we are not driving straight through, this is just how long it takes to get there).

(My 10 month old daughter is 22 lbs so she is forward facing in her car seat now..so that helps.)

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I would recommend keeping your 10 month old rear facing until she is a year old. It's not as fun for her, but it is much, much safer.

As for keeping them occupied...lots of new snacks, fun kids music, a portbale DVD player (if you allow them to watch), a few rolls of scotch tape (my son LOVES to pull and pull and pull and stick it everywhere!), stickers to stick on each other and paper, several new toys to pull out every few hours, finger puppets, magna doodle, frequent stops to break up the trip and get everyone moving.

When drove from the North Carolina coast to San Diego last summer with our 2 and 1/2 year old and found it very helpful to stop every 2 - 2 and 1/2 hours. I had a ball, bubbles, chalk, and other outdoor fun stuff to do at our stops. It made the trip longer, but being able to get out of the car for half and hour and run around did us ALL good! When we travel, there are very few rules in the car...I let the kids eat whatever, whenever. And if they don't nap, oh well, they'll sleep at night.

Enjoy your trip!

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Infant photography props!?

I have an outdoor infant shoot tomorrow with a 3 month old baby girl. Im shooting at a gorgeous park with waterfalls and grassy fields. I have one cute white wicker basket i will be using as a prop but i need a couple more ideas for props. I love those cute little beds people use as props. I need quick/inexpensive ideas for props since the shoot is tomorrow.

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I like the simple white cloths/blankets that are wrapped round babies in many of the proffesional photos. Also natural things work really well.. flowers/leaves
or just the babies favourite toys because it would make them feel natural. However you could try charity shops for baskets in the early morning at like 9-30 ish or any cushions that take your fancy. also they are good for things like fake flowers if you would want them :) sunflowers are nice, maybe go to your florist and grab a few?

Need tips for outdoor tanning!?

1234

So I frequent tanning salons, I tan quick and dark there, but Ive never went tanning outdoors. I havent gone to the saloon in a few weeks because lack of funds, so I figure since the weather is nicer out now I can start to lay out outdoors. Anyway, I still have a base tan, but not as dark as I was. How long on each side should I lay out? also what sort of lotions/oils and whatnot should I apply to my skin?

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Extra-virgin olive & coconut oils have natural sunscreens. Carol's Daughter Gelee de Soleil Browning Oil with SPF 15 is a good oil to use; it doesn't have any of the harmful toxins found in most popular beauty brands, like:



* Mineral Oil, Paraffin & Petrolatum â Petroleum products coat the skin like plastic, clogging pores and creating a build-up of toxins, which in turn accumulate and can lead to dermatological issues, like slowing cellular development, which can cause you to show earlier signs of aging. Suspected cause of cancer & Disruptive of hormonal activity.

* PARABENS â Such as methyl- propyl- butyl- & ethyl- parabens: Widely used as preservatives in the cosmetic industry (including moisturizers). An estimated 13,200 cosmetic and skin care products contain parabens. Studies implicate their connection with cancer. They have hormone-disrupting qualities â mimicking estrogen â and interfere with the bodyâs endocrine system.

* Propylene Glycol â Used as a moisturizer in cosmetics and as a carrier in fragrance oils. Shown to cause dermatitis, kidney or liver abnormalities, may inhibit skin cell growth, and is a skin irritant and sensitizer.

* ALCOHOLS â Such as Isopropyl Alcohol, SD Alcohol 40, Ethyl Alcohol: Alcohols dissolve the bodyâs natural moisturizers and strip the skin of its protection, leaving it vulnerable to infection. Alcohols destroy skinâs pH balance, and since they absorb water, they speed up wrinkling.

* Sodium laurel or lauryl sulfate (SLS), also known as sodium laureth sulfate (SLES) â Found in car washes, engine degreasers, garage floor cleaners⦠and in OVER 90% of personal care products! SLS breaks down the skinâs moisture barrier, easily penetrates the skin, and allows other chemicals to easily penetrate. Combined with other chemicals, SLS becomes a ânitrosamineâ, a potent class of carcinogen. It can also cause hair loss. SLES is sometimes disguised with the labeling âcomes from coconutâ or âcoconut-derived" - and is found in many popular body washes and toothpastes!

* Toluene â Poison! Danger! Harmful or fatal if swallowed! Harmful if inhaled or absorbed through the skin. Made from petroleum or coal tar, and found in most synthetic fragrances. Chronic exposure linked to anemia, lowered blood cell count, liver or kidney damage, and may affect a developing fetus. Butylated hydroxytoluene (BHT) contains toluene. Other names may include benzoic and benzyl.

* WAXES â Such as Paraffin, Candelilla Wax, Carnuba Wax: Waxes are widely used in cleansing creams, eye creams, and moisturizers. Waxes clog pores, creating blackheads and whiteheads. They also smother the skin, which over time creates an enlarged pore problem.

* FD&C â When this abbreviation precedes the name of a color, it means that the FDA (Food and Drug Administration) has certified it as safe for use in drugs and cosmetics, but not food. D&C colors are usually synthetic, coal tar colors. Theyâre toxic and should be avoided when at all possible.

* PHTHALATES â These chemicals rarely find their way onto an ingredients list, but they are present in many health and beauty products just the same. Wherever you see âperfumeâ or âfragrance,â phthalates are present, because they are used to preserve these synthetic scents. Recent studies have shown that phthalates may be mutagenic, carcinogenic, and adversely affect male sperm, that they increase levels of testosterone and estrogen in humans, and are central to breast cancer risk. They are an ingredient in nail polish and other lacquers, and in soft plastics (e.g., infant chew toys).

* Lanolin â A yellow, semi-solid, fatty secretion from sheepâs wool is widely used in skin and beauty care products. It can cause an allergic reaction in some people, as well as enlarged pores.

* Acetone â Used in nail polish and nail polish removers, this colorless, volatile liquid is often used in astringents, fresheners, or clarifying lotions. It is extremely toxic and will dehydrate the skin, while speeding up the aging process.

* Acrylamide â Found in many hand and face creams. Linked to mammary tumors in lab research.

* Phenol carbolic acid â Found in many lotions and skin creams. Can cause circulatory collapse, paralysis, convulsions, coma and even death from respiratory failure.

* Dioxane â Found in compounds known as PEG, Polysorbates, Laureth, ethoxylated alcohols. Common in a wide range of personal care products. The compounds are usually contaminated with high concentrations of highly volatile 1,4-dioxane, easily absorbed through the skin. Dioxaneâs carcinogenicity was first reported in 1965 and later confirmed in studies including one from the National Cancer Institute in 1978. Nasal passages and liver are the most vulnerable. Dioxane is easily removed during the manufacturing process by âvacuum strippingâ. Warning: It is a synthetic derivative of coconut. Watch for hidden language on labels, such as âcomes from coconutâ.

IF SO, you should throw them away IMMEDIATELY and Tell ALL your friends and family!!! (Extra-virgin olive and/or coconut oils are great alternative moisturizers, and they contain natural sunscreens, until you find something else without these toxins) Hope this helps!!! Good Luck!!!!!

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choosing a day care for an infant ?

Ember Halo

when to start looking?
what to look for?
what to ask?
reasonable price range?
any other tips?

(it will be for my infant after i go back to work, which i HAVE to do, btw, or we'll be homeless. i'm hoping to be able to take off a full 12 weeks after the baby is born, but i might not be able to afford it)
if i don't work i can't afford anything, moron.
i don't know anybody that can watch my kid full time. everyone i know has to work, or they're too old to care for a child.
come on people, can you answer my actual question, instead of telling me i need to do this or that instead??
seriously, my only option is to put the baby in day care. i would love to have the luxury of being a sahm, or even having a relative provide care for my child. thing is, i CAN'T. i have to go back to work asap after the baby is born. everyone i know has to work full time + as well, and they all live 20min+ away anyhow. i just moved to a new town to reduce my commute to work and i don't know anybody yet.

i just need some tips on getting a quality day care provider!!! it's my only option but i'm TRYING to make the best choice i CAN within the possibilities.
thank you, Ann!!
very helpful!
don't tell me i'm not looking out for the welfare of my own child! you know nothing about me or my situation.
don't judge me for doing the only thing i can to take care of my child. i live in low income housing. i have very little family, besides my HUSBAND (yes, the father). so we didn't get pregnant at the best time, what are we supposed to do? abort?!? get real!
oh, some VERY helpful answers!
thank you so much!
i have to use day care & so i want to find the best one possible, of course! thanks for helping me!
it's very presumptuous of you to assume you know our situation.

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Definitely start looking before your child is born. As well as maybe not having much time after the birth, some places have waiting lists so you don't want your child to miss out on a good setting because you didn't put your name down early enough. Are you in America? I'm in England, and most places don't take babies before they are 3 or 4 months old, although some do take them from 6 weeks. You will probably have to phone or go there and ask to make an appointment to look around. I know the nursery I used to work for didn't just let people turn up to have a look the same day for safety reasons, not letting strangers in, etc. Once you've made your appointment and gone there make sure they let you have a proper look around, and don't let them hurry you out of rooms. Ask which room your child would be in. In England most places have separate rooms for children of separate ages. Generally small babies are kept away from the more boisterous toddlers most of the time, although they may meet up during some parts of the day. When you enter the room your child will be in observe what the adults are doing. At the nursery I worked at, where I was with the 3-4 yr olds, it bothered me how much time the 'baby' staff seemed to spend sitting on the floor chatting to one another, and not paying the babies much attention. Look out for signs of them doing that when you first enter the room, as they may not know exactly when you are coming to look around and you may be able to catch them off guard. Look at what the babies are given to play with. Are there plenty of toys? Are the babies all occupied when they are awake or are they just left sitting around? Ask about sleep times. Babies left on mats on the floor can easily be hurt by older babies falling on them etc. I have known this happen. Are there cribs that the babies can sleep in safely? Ask about a kitchen area where the bottles are prepared. Are there signs of sterilising equipment to ensure bugs are not spread? Look at the walls. Are there bright displays that staff have thought about? Is there evidence of art work by children? Even very young babies can participate in creative play if the practitioners plan for it. Look at the other rooms too, as your baby might spend a few years in the setting. How are the staff interacting with the children? Are they actively playing and spending time with them as they should be? Are the children playing with suitable toys? Do they generally seem happy? Ask to see any outdoor play area that the setting has. I think in England all settings have to have an outdoor area, I'm not sure about anywhere else. Ask how the children are contained - are there any ways they could crawl out, or someone could come in and snatch a child? Look at the ground. If your young baby is taken outside they may be laid or sat on the ground. Are there any small stones they could put in their mouth? Ask about timings of the centre to check they fit in with what you need. Ask what equipment you would need to bring with your child. Do they supply bottles/ milk/ food/ nappies/ wipes etc or would you need to provide all those things? When you look around a setting listen to your instincts. If you think you feel a happy atmosphere then there probably is one, but if you feel a bit tense there then your baby probably will too. Chat to the staff as much as you can, to gain impressions of them. Are you happy to leave your most valuable posession with these people? Remember that you can't buy love. I did love and care for the children I worked with but not everybody does. Some people just view it as a job. If I had to ask somebody else to care for my child then I think I would agree with another poster and try to find a good childminder, who may only have your child to think about and care for. However, if daycare is your only option then think about the points I have mentioned and hopefully you and your baby will be very happy with the care given.

best toy ideas to get an active 1 year old?

....

i have no idea and my mom keeps on asking me what he wants.....he wants diapers and sippy cups...lol but that's not a present


so ideas please

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One years old is so easy because they have alot of baby toys and now that they are turning 1, you can get age approiate toys! If you go to walmart.com,, under toys- you can shop by age and they will have a list of toys for that age!

Learning toys are good! They have alot of ideas and NOT expensive!

Riding toys are fun! Those little cars that you can push to learn to walk and then you can sit on it!

Big legos are fun cause you can add to them!

Outdoor toys! A slide or infant swing! My kids always loved those!

If grandma is buying- PICK something good!

HAVE FUN!!!!

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Is it right to keep a 4year old out off nursery?

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My 4year old started nursery about 6months ago but hates it and never wants to go he's also been naughty since he started there! In sept he starts full time in the infants,do u think its wrong to keep him out of nursery until he starts big school?

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nursery is a good setting for preparing for school.

many kids don't like the separation from their parents initially. but after a few days or weeks, they get used to the idea. and they enjoy spending time playing with other kids, doing stuff they wouldn't get to do at home.

if you take him out of nursery, he will miss this chance, and might spend the first few weeks of school getting over the separation upset, missing education.

that said, there is no reason he has to stay in that nursery. my son went to 3 different nurseries when he was small. the first was near my home, but too far from work. it was a nice place, just too far away.

the second was nearer work, but useless. they had new staff every other week, they yelled at kids for playing with the wrong toys, the kids were often bored...

then after another house move, we found a really good nursery.

as we left the village one sunday, heading in the direction of nursery, my son asked if he "could play with the childrens today?"

i would have a look around at some different nurseries. maybe one with smaller class groups, or more outdoor activities.

What do you think of this babysitting ad on craigslist?

Cynthia Pe

Hi, my name is XXXXX and I am a dependable, responsible, fun-loving stay-at-home mom and have over 15 years of childcare giving experience! I live in XXXXXXXXXX and would love to provide care for your precious infant and/or preschooler in my home!

I have several excellent references from past and present families whom I have worked for plus a clean background check which I am more than happy to send you!

I am available any time Monday through Friday, and possibly weekends!

I also provide all meals, snacks and drinks at no additional cost!

We have snack times, lots of toys, games, puzzles, books, a swing set and plenty of outdoor play!!

Please feel free to e-mail or call me if this is something you would like to discuss or if you would like to meet me and/or visit my home. :) Looking forward to hearing from you!!
(XXX)-XXX-XXXX


I charge only $125.00/wk for full-time care(40-50 hrs.), OR $4.00/hr for part-time care(no more than $25.00/day), with discounts offered for multiple siblings!

Babysitting and nannying is what I love to do and it's what I do best!

Here is a little about myself and my experiences:

I have worked as a caregiver in the Infant and Toddler Rooms at DayStar Christian Academy.
I have worked full-time for multiple families with in-home care, which have included triplets and those with special needs.
I am a featured sitter on sittercity.com and care.com.
I have also received my Certified Nurse Assistant license, specializing in Pediatrics, where I became First-Aid and CPR certified.
I am currently the Nursery Director at our church (and also five previous ones!)

My two primary goals for all children in my care is safety and fun! I sincerely enjoy not only caring for children, but also engaging in activities with each individual child and spending time with them as well. I always put a big effort into ensuring the children I care for are both safe and enjoying themselves.

I don't encourage spending much time watching TV or for the little ones to be laying down by themselves, but prefer playing interactive games and providing exciting learning experiences! Also, my house is clean, smoke-free and child-proofed!

I understand how important it is to leave your child with someone you trust and to know your child will be very well taken care of while you are away. I promise you that any and all children I am caring for will receive the best supervision, attention and devotion possible!

My life is centered around my family and the children for whom I provide care. Our house is filled with love, laughter and hugs because I believe each and every child needs a secure, loving, and nurturing environment in which to thrive and flourish!

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I thought it was good, but I'd try to shorten it a little! It makes you sound very qualified! I like how you added things about your children!

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What should I do for Christmas this year?

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parenting

My kids already have to many toys and clothes. I was thinking of getting them a laptop but hubby veto that idea.

How does new bedroom furniture sound? I could fix up their rooms (which would most likely be a better idea as I plan to sell the house next year)
We did just take a trip to Louisiana but I could take them to my Dad's Lake house.

My kids play ball and catch but not to good at sports they are only 4 yrs, 2 yrs and 5 months old

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So you have an infant to a 4 year old and aren't going to do Christmas for them because "they have enough all ready". I'm sorry but I think it's a bad idea all the way around.
Taking a trip or redoing their rooms at that age is not going to be appreciated. Kids want things they can unwrap and play with not furniture they have to "keep nice" or a trip that they may never remember taking years later. Besides, if you're moving anyway, why sink all the money into redoing any room when you won't be living there and the new owner is likely to change it anyway after they move in.

Your best bit is to go through all the toys they don't play with anymore and donate them long before Christmas. If they are broke or have critical missing pieces, throw them away. Clothing, if you can't reuse it as hand me downs for your younger children and it has no sentimental value to you then donate it as well if it is free of severe wear and stains.

Buy them some new books. New clothing or PJ's for Christmas. Get some toys like an art center, something for outside rather than inside if you are over run in the house. How about new toy boxes with their names on them for their rooms to keep their personal things in? get some board games for kids that are in their age range to play together.
My son has oodles of indoor things to play with but for his birthday in March instead of telling people "don't buy him toys he has too much all ready" we just told them "outdoor toys, swim items for summer or books". Kids like things they can have and open. When they are this young it is more important to them. As for stockings you could always put in some treats, new crayons, coloring books, tub toys (throw out worn out ones that you have at home), things that can go in the car to amuse them with a tote with their name on them to keep in the car with their car toys.

A laptop at their age is a bad idea. It would end up broken and would be a waste for them at their age.

What do you recommend to get a Daycare started?

brendahenr

How many employees should I have? I need books, sleeping mats, food, toy's, outdoor gym, cribs, playpins, highchairs, eating table etc. Give me some other ideas.

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Day Care Center or Day Care Group Home or Day Care Family home? A big difference. As an individual who has worked in child care for over 10 years I've done the center route and am doing the family child care route presently. My husband and I also have looked into opening a center. Check with your State rules and Regulations.

In Michigan the child-teacher ratio for child care is 1:4 for infants and toddlers, 1:10 for preschool and I believe 1:12 for school-agers. That should help with your question about employers.

Beyond equipment...think philosophy...what is your philosophy regarding early childhood education. Create a handbook of policies and stick with it!

Some food for thought: The quality of a preschool and the quality of a childcare/preschool should be NO different. Consider incorporating a high-quality preschool program.

Consider education...how much do you have? Does it meet state guidelines? How much does your employees have?

Advertisement... using the classifieds in the newspaper will get you EVERYONE and especially problem families. Word of mouth is best... consider having an "open house".

You will definately need a schedule for each classroom... it will be fine tuned as you go along...but there should be a variation of activities provided and areas for quiet play and large motor play. Consider centers in older toddler on up.

Oh the list goes on. Hope this helps!

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Where can I find a list of everything I need to have b4 baby arrives?

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prechemad

I am due in April. I am not sure of everything I need to have for my baby. I know all the basics like crib, dresser, ect.. I just want to have everything done and ready for his arrival by March. I am so confused I dont even know where to start!! Any help I can get would be greatly appreciated!! This is my first and I am just wanting to be completly prepared!

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You can look on any baby care website, or in one of those "What to Expect..." books. Or, just take all the answers you get and compile them. Someone may list something no one else thought of. Some basics I can remember are:
onesies in all sizes
socks
sleepers
bath supplies - lotion, baby oil, baby bath, baby powder, nail clippers, towels, washcloths, brush
bathtub
vaseline, Desitin, infant Tylenol
thermometer
baby monitor
bibs
bottles and bottle brush
pacifiers
burp cloths
blankets (receiving and thicker ones)
outdoor wear (jacket or sweater and hat - snowsuit if necessary)
lap changing pads
waterproof pads for bassinet and/or crib mattress
sheets for bassinet and/or crib
nose aspirator (the sucker thing!)
cotton balls/q-tips
musical mobile for crib, if desired (my daughter still likes hers at age 2!)
some small baby toys, and a stuffed animal or doll
diapers, can be all sizes, not just newborn
baby wipes
diaper pail if desired

These are just some I can think of. Hope it helps a bit.

Do they make baby swings for indoors?

dragynwind

I'm not talking about the infant swings, but actual swings that you can push the baby in? We have a five month old daughter, and we live in an apartment. We have a jump-up that attaches to the doorframe, but she seems to enjoy it more when we have her "swing" in it, so I was wondering if they made indoor swings? The infant ones are too small for her and she doesn't like them.

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When my nephew outgrew his infant swing my sister put an outdoor baby swing in her doorway using hooks, but they had a really strong doorway. I didn't trust my doorways enough to do that for my kids so I got them a little tikes swing and slide set and kept it in the toy room for them.

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Is it right to keep a 4year old out off nursery?

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My 4year old started nursery about 6months ago but hates it and never wants to go he's also been naughty since he started there! In sept he starts full time in the infants,do u think its wrong to keep him out of nursery until he starts big school?

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nursery is a good setting for preparing for school.

many kids don't like the separation from their parents initially. but after a few days or weeks, they get used to the idea. and they enjoy spending time playing with other kids, doing stuff they wouldn't get to do at home.

if you take him out of nursery, he will miss this chance, and might spend the first few weeks of school getting over the separation upset, missing education.

that said, there is no reason he has to stay in that nursery. my son went to 3 different nurseries when he was small. the first was near my home, but too far from work. it was a nice place, just too far away.

the second was nearer work, but useless. they had new staff every other week, they yelled at kids for playing with the wrong toys, the kids were often bored...

then after another house move, we found a really good nursery.

as we left the village one sunday, heading in the direction of nursery, my son asked if he "could play with the childrens today?"

i would have a look around at some different nurseries. maybe one with smaller class groups, or more outdoor activities.

What do you think of this babysitting ad on craigslist?

Cynthia Pe

Hi, my name is XXXXX and I am a dependable, responsible, fun-loving stay-at-home mom and have over 15 years of childcare giving experience! I live in XXXXXXXXXX and would love to provide care for your precious infant and/or preschooler in my home!

I have several excellent references from past and present families whom I have worked for plus a clean background check which I am more than happy to send you!

I am available any time Monday through Friday, and possibly weekends!

I also provide all meals, snacks and drinks at no additional cost!

We have snack times, lots of toys, games, puzzles, books, a swing set and plenty of outdoor play!!

Please feel free to e-mail or call me if this is something you would like to discuss or if you would like to meet me and/or visit my home. :) Looking forward to hearing from you!!
(XXX)-XXX-XXXX


I charge only $125.00/wk for full-time care(40-50 hrs.), OR $4.00/hr for part-time care(no more than $25.00/day), with discounts offered for multiple siblings!

Babysitting and nannying is what I love to do and it's what I do best!

Here is a little about myself and my experiences:

I have worked as a caregiver in the Infant and Toddler Rooms at DayStar Christian Academy.
I have worked full-time for multiple families with in-home care, which have included triplets and those with special needs.
I am a featured sitter on sittercity.com and care.com.
I have also received my Certified Nurse Assistant license, specializing in Pediatrics, where I became First-Aid and CPR certified.
I am currently the Nursery Director at our church (and also five previous ones!)

My two primary goals for all children in my care is safety and fun! I sincerely enjoy not only caring for children, but also engaging in activities with each individual child and spending time with them as well. I always put a big effort into ensuring the children I care for are both safe and enjoying themselves.

I don't encourage spending much time watching TV or for the little ones to be laying down by themselves, but prefer playing interactive games and providing exciting learning experiences! Also, my house is clean, smoke-free and child-proofed!

I understand how important it is to leave your child with someone you trust and to know your child will be very well taken care of while you are away. I promise you that any and all children I am caring for will receive the best supervision, attention and devotion possible!

My life is centered around my family and the children for whom I provide care. Our house is filled with love, laughter and hugs because I believe each and every child needs a secure, loving, and nurturing environment in which to thrive and flourish!

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I thought it was good, but I'd try to shorten it a little! It makes you sound very qualified! I like how you added things about your children!

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Do they make baby swings for indoors?

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dragynwind

I'm not talking about the infant swings, but actual swings that you can push the baby in? We have a five month old daughter, and we live in an apartment. We have a jump-up that attaches to the doorframe, but she seems to enjoy it more when we have her "swing" in it, so I was wondering if they made indoor swings? The infant ones are too small for her and she doesn't like them.

Answer
When my nephew outgrew his infant swing my sister put an outdoor baby swing in her doorway using hooks, but they had a really strong doorway. I didn't trust my doorways enough to do that for my kids so I got them a little tikes swing and slide set and kept it in the toy room for them.

Tips for babysitting 6 children with a friend?

Julia

Hi I am 15 years old and I was asked to babysit 6 children, and to ask a friend. I asked my family friend who is 19 years old so both of us will be babysitting the kids.
The ages are 7, 5.5, two 4.5, 2.5, and 10 months old.
Only two of the kids are girls.
Supposedly they are all easy children.

Any tips to handling everyone? Activities we could do to keep the busy, etc? How to stay organized?

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First of all, I would split up the kids. For instance, I would take the kids that are 4.5-7 (all of whom should be more independent), and I'd ask the other sitter to take the 2.5 year old and the 10 month old. You could also ask the other sitter to take the 4.5 year old, leaving you with the 5 and 7 year olds. Or vice versa (you could take the younger ones). I prefer caring for the older children, so I have listed for you the way I would go about this.

If you are caring for the infant and the toddler, you'll want to make sure that you are watching them around the clock, and keeping them happy. Play with toys, get down on the floor, be interactive.

For the older kids...it really varies on "handling them". Do these children get along with one another? That is usually the biggest problem...sibling rivalry. I usually bring along with me board games, crafts, and maybe a ball.

This one ball can be used for indoor games like monkey in the middle, silent ball, or even hot potato; and also the typical outdoor games. Crafts can be whatever you want to make out of them. With that many children, I'd keep it simple. I bought a great "Spin Art" kit from Meijer which was a huge hit. I also like the "Color Wonder" paints (no mess!), though crafts are endless in possibilities.

How will the weather be? With four kids, tag is great. As is hide and seek (which can also be played indoors). Then of course there are the typical outdoor games (Football, etc.). Ride bikes, shoot hoops, possibly put together a scavenger hunt.

Also if you are indoors with the older kids, you could always make a fort! They normally LOVE that!

Of course keep all of the children fed and well cared for. If this runs into the evening, I usually would bring the kids in and calm them down an hour or two before bed time. Watch a movie. That is a great way for the kids to unwind and get prepared for bed. Read books to any children that request it, and get them to bed! Once they are sleeping soundly, enjoying the rest of the evening for yourself, but be sure to check on the kids frequently.

Best of luck, and have fun!!!

~ Kris

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What should I do for Christmas this year?

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parenting

My kids already have to many toys and clothes. I was thinking of getting them a laptop but hubby veto that idea.

How does new bedroom furniture sound? I could fix up their rooms (which would most likely be a better idea as I plan to sell the house next year)
We did just take a trip to Louisiana but I could take them to my Dad's Lake house.

My kids play ball and catch but not to good at sports they are only 4 yrs, 2 yrs and 5 months old

Answer
So you have an infant to a 4 year old and aren't going to do Christmas for them because "they have enough all ready". I'm sorry but I think it's a bad idea all the way around.
Taking a trip or redoing their rooms at that age is not going to be appreciated. Kids want things they can unwrap and play with not furniture they have to "keep nice" or a trip that they may never remember taking years later. Besides, if you're moving anyway, why sink all the money into redoing any room when you won't be living there and the new owner is likely to change it anyway after they move in.

Your best bit is to go through all the toys they don't play with anymore and donate them long before Christmas. If they are broke or have critical missing pieces, throw them away. Clothing, if you can't reuse it as hand me downs for your younger children and it has no sentimental value to you then donate it as well if it is free of severe wear and stains.

Buy them some new books. New clothing or PJ's for Christmas. Get some toys like an art center, something for outside rather than inside if you are over run in the house. How about new toy boxes with their names on them for their rooms to keep their personal things in? get some board games for kids that are in their age range to play together.
My son has oodles of indoor things to play with but for his birthday in March instead of telling people "don't buy him toys he has too much all ready" we just told them "outdoor toys, swim items for summer or books". Kids like things they can have and open. When they are this young it is more important to them. As for stockings you could always put in some treats, new crayons, coloring books, tub toys (throw out worn out ones that you have at home), things that can go in the car to amuse them with a tote with their name on them to keep in the car with their car toys.

A laptop at their age is a bad idea. It would end up broken and would be a waste for them at their age.

What do you recommend to get a Daycare started?

brendahenr

How many employees should I have? I need books, sleeping mats, food, toy's, outdoor gym, cribs, playpins, highchairs, eating table etc. Give me some other ideas.

Answer
Day Care Center or Day Care Group Home or Day Care Family home? A big difference. As an individual who has worked in child care for over 10 years I've done the center route and am doing the family child care route presently. My husband and I also have looked into opening a center. Check with your State rules and Regulations.

In Michigan the child-teacher ratio for child care is 1:4 for infants and toddlers, 1:10 for preschool and I believe 1:12 for school-agers. That should help with your question about employers.

Beyond equipment...think philosophy...what is your philosophy regarding early childhood education. Create a handbook of policies and stick with it!

Some food for thought: The quality of a preschool and the quality of a childcare/preschool should be NO different. Consider incorporating a high-quality preschool program.

Consider education...how much do you have? Does it meet state guidelines? How much does your employees have?

Advertisement... using the classifieds in the newspaper will get you EVERYONE and especially problem families. Word of mouth is best... consider having an "open house".

You will definately need a schedule for each classroom... it will be fine tuned as you go along...but there should be a variation of activities provided and areas for quiet play and large motor play. Consider centers in older toddler on up.

Oh the list goes on. Hope this helps!

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Tips for babysitting 6 children with a friend?

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Julia

Hi I am 15 years old and I was asked to babysit 6 children, and to ask a friend. I asked my family friend who is 19 years old so both of us will be babysitting the kids.
The ages are 7, 5.5, two 4.5, 2.5, and 10 months old.
Only two of the kids are girls.
Supposedly they are all easy children.

Any tips to handling everyone? Activities we could do to keep the busy, etc? How to stay organized?

Answer
First of all, I would split up the kids. For instance, I would take the kids that are 4.5-7 (all of whom should be more independent), and I'd ask the other sitter to take the 2.5 year old and the 10 month old. You could also ask the other sitter to take the 4.5 year old, leaving you with the 5 and 7 year olds. Or vice versa (you could take the younger ones). I prefer caring for the older children, so I have listed for you the way I would go about this.

If you are caring for the infant and the toddler, you'll want to make sure that you are watching them around the clock, and keeping them happy. Play with toys, get down on the floor, be interactive.

For the older kids...it really varies on "handling them". Do these children get along with one another? That is usually the biggest problem...sibling rivalry. I usually bring along with me board games, crafts, and maybe a ball.

This one ball can be used for indoor games like monkey in the middle, silent ball, or even hot potato; and also the typical outdoor games. Crafts can be whatever you want to make out of them. With that many children, I'd keep it simple. I bought a great "Spin Art" kit from Meijer which was a huge hit. I also like the "Color Wonder" paints (no mess!), though crafts are endless in possibilities.

How will the weather be? With four kids, tag is great. As is hide and seek (which can also be played indoors). Then of course there are the typical outdoor games (Football, etc.). Ride bikes, shoot hoops, possibly put together a scavenger hunt.

Also if you are indoors with the older kids, you could always make a fort! They normally LOVE that!

Of course keep all of the children fed and well cared for. If this runs into the evening, I usually would bring the kids in and calm them down an hour or two before bed time. Watch a movie. That is a great way for the kids to unwind and get prepared for bed. Read books to any children that request it, and get them to bed! Once they are sleeping soundly, enjoying the rest of the evening for yourself, but be sure to check on the kids frequently.

Best of luck, and have fun!!!

~ Kris

We will be having a fun day to mark the end of the school year. I need ideas for infant and toddler fun day?

faithofthe

I work at Early Head Start and we are limited in what we can do. Last year we did a carnival day and the year before that we had a Luau. We can't think of an easy theme for this year..any ideas?
we are required to have a fun day theme.

Answer
Have a "Beach Day" or "Water Play Day"
This is assuming you have an adequate outdoor area, of course.

Set out a few wading pools, water sprinklers, slides, etc. The children will bring their bathing suits,towels and sunscreen and just enjoy a day outdoors in a less-structured environment. Have a sand table with lots of digging toys available; a small tub of sand with seashells; a bubble center, and so on. You can have a picnic-style lunch with popsicles.

Not a whole lot of work in terms of decorations, props, etc. but loads of fun for the kids.

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What do I need to do in order to start my own in home day care?

What do you recommend to get a Daycare started?

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brendahenr

How many employees should I have? I need books, sleeping mats, food, toy's, outdoor gym, cribs, playpins, highchairs, eating table etc. Give me some other ideas.

Answer
Day Care Center or Day Care Group Home or Day Care Family home? A big difference. As an individual who has worked in child care for over 10 years I've done the center route and am doing the family child care route presently. My husband and I also have looked into opening a center. Check with your State rules and Regulations.

In Michigan the child-teacher ratio for child care is 1:4 for infants and toddlers, 1:10 for preschool and I believe 1:12 for school-agers. That should help with your question about employers.

Beyond equipment...think philosophy...what is your philosophy regarding early childhood education. Create a handbook of policies and stick with it!

Some food for thought: The quality of a preschool and the quality of a childcare/preschool should be NO different. Consider incorporating a high-quality preschool program.

Consider education...how much do you have? Does it meet state guidelines? How much does your employees have?

Advertisement... using the classifieds in the newspaper will get you EVERYONE and especially problem families. Word of mouth is best... consider having an "open house".

You will definately need a schedule for each classroom... it will be fine tuned as you go along...but there should be a variation of activities provided and areas for quiet play and large motor play. Consider centers in older toddler on up.

Oh the list goes on. Hope this helps!

Is it right to keep a 4year old out off nursery?

Natalie

My 4year old started nursery about 6months ago but hates it and never wants to go he's also been naughty since he started there! In sept he starts full time in the infants,do u think its wrong to keep him out of nursery until he starts big school?

Answer
nursery is a good setting for preparing for school.

many kids don't like the separation from their parents initially. but after a few days or weeks, they get used to the idea. and they enjoy spending time playing with other kids, doing stuff they wouldn't get to do at home.

if you take him out of nursery, he will miss this chance, and might spend the first few weeks of school getting over the separation upset, missing education.

that said, there is no reason he has to stay in that nursery. my son went to 3 different nurseries when he was small. the first was near my home, but too far from work. it was a nice place, just too far away.

the second was nearer work, but useless. they had new staff every other week, they yelled at kids for playing with the wrong toys, the kids were often bored...

then after another house move, we found a really good nursery.

as we left the village one sunday, heading in the direction of nursery, my son asked if he "could play with the childrens today?"

i would have a look around at some different nurseries. maybe one with smaller class groups, or more outdoor activities.

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What do you recommend to get a Daycare started?

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brendahenr

How many employees should I have? I need books, sleeping mats, food, toy's, outdoor gym, cribs, playpins, highchairs, eating table etc. Give me some other ideas.

Answer
Day Care Center or Day Care Group Home or Day Care Family home? A big difference. As an individual who has worked in child care for over 10 years I've done the center route and am doing the family child care route presently. My husband and I also have looked into opening a center. Check with your State rules and Regulations.

In Michigan the child-teacher ratio for child care is 1:4 for infants and toddlers, 1:10 for preschool and I believe 1:12 for school-agers. That should help with your question about employers.

Beyond equipment...think philosophy...what is your philosophy regarding early childhood education. Create a handbook of policies and stick with it!

Some food for thought: The quality of a preschool and the quality of a childcare/preschool should be NO different. Consider incorporating a high-quality preschool program.

Consider education...how much do you have? Does it meet state guidelines? How much does your employees have?

Advertisement... using the classifieds in the newspaper will get you EVERYONE and especially problem families. Word of mouth is best... consider having an "open house".

You will definately need a schedule for each classroom... it will be fine tuned as you go along...but there should be a variation of activities provided and areas for quiet play and large motor play. Consider centers in older toddler on up.

Oh the list goes on. Hope this helps!

Is it right to keep a 4year old out off nursery?

Natalie

My 4year old started nursery about 6months ago but hates it and never wants to go he's also been naughty since he started there! In sept he starts full time in the infants,do u think its wrong to keep him out of nursery until he starts big school?

Answer
nursery is a good setting for preparing for school.

many kids don't like the separation from their parents initially. but after a few days or weeks, they get used to the idea. and they enjoy spending time playing with other kids, doing stuff they wouldn't get to do at home.

if you take him out of nursery, he will miss this chance, and might spend the first few weeks of school getting over the separation upset, missing education.

that said, there is no reason he has to stay in that nursery. my son went to 3 different nurseries when he was small. the first was near my home, but too far from work. it was a nice place, just too far away.

the second was nearer work, but useless. they had new staff every other week, they yelled at kids for playing with the wrong toys, the kids were often bored...

then after another house move, we found a really good nursery.

as we left the village one sunday, heading in the direction of nursery, my son asked if he "could play with the childrens today?"

i would have a look around at some different nurseries. maybe one with smaller class groups, or more outdoor activities.

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What do you think of this babysitting ad on craigslist?

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Cynthia Pe

Hi, my name is XXXXX and I am a dependable, responsible, fun-loving stay-at-home mom and have over 15 years of childcare giving experience! I live in XXXXXXXXXX and would love to provide care for your precious infant and/or preschooler in my home!

I have several excellent references from past and present families whom I have worked for plus a clean background check which I am more than happy to send you!

I am available any time Monday through Friday, and possibly weekends!

I also provide all meals, snacks and drinks at no additional cost!

We have snack times, lots of toys, games, puzzles, books, a swing set and plenty of outdoor play!!

Please feel free to e-mail or call me if this is something you would like to discuss or if you would like to meet me and/or visit my home. :) Looking forward to hearing from you!!
(XXX)-XXX-XXXX


I charge only $125.00/wk for full-time care(40-50 hrs.), OR $4.00/hr for part-time care(no more than $25.00/day), with discounts offered for multiple siblings!

Babysitting and nannying is what I love to do and it's what I do best!

Here is a little about myself and my experiences:

I have worked as a caregiver in the Infant and Toddler Rooms at DayStar Christian Academy.
I have worked full-time for multiple families with in-home care, which have included triplets and those with special needs.
I am a featured sitter on sittercity.com and care.com.
I have also received my Certified Nurse Assistant license, specializing in Pediatrics, where I became First-Aid and CPR certified.
I am currently the Nursery Director at our church (and also five previous ones!)

My two primary goals for all children in my care is safety and fun! I sincerely enjoy not only caring for children, but also engaging in activities with each individual child and spending time with them as well. I always put a big effort into ensuring the children I care for are both safe and enjoying themselves.

I don't encourage spending much time watching TV or for the little ones to be laying down by themselves, but prefer playing interactive games and providing exciting learning experiences! Also, my house is clean, smoke-free and child-proofed!

I understand how important it is to leave your child with someone you trust and to know your child will be very well taken care of while you are away. I promise you that any and all children I am caring for will receive the best supervision, attention and devotion possible!

My life is centered around my family and the children for whom I provide care. Our house is filled with love, laughter and hugs because I believe each and every child needs a secure, loving, and nurturing environment in which to thrive and flourish!

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I thought it was good, but I'd try to shorten it a little! It makes you sound very qualified! I like how you added things about your children!

What do I need to do in order to start my own in home day care?

Hyang

I've graduated from college with a diploma in child care services and Im interested in starting my own in home day care. What do I need to do to get it started?

Answer
I think that after you have received your application packet, which includes the licensing requirements you will be on your way. :-) The packet I received was pretty thorough :-). The licensing requirements give you the "foundation" of your program. It will tell you your space requirments, training requirements, what paperwork you MUST have (don't fall for those online "kits"...I purchased one and they are not benefitial unless you don't have a bit of common sense! The required forms are free from the state.

Things to consider: By no means do I mean to discourage you. I am enjoying my in home child care but there are some things people just don't think about :-) Cover your basis before you open and reap the benefits!
* Please consider yourself a professional and act accordingly with all aspects of your child care.
* Will this be taking place in a separate space of your home or will it be in you main living area. It effects your WHOLE family when it's in your main living area. It's doable...we are doing it...and my husband handles all the charts and art projects and calendar and all the items that go with it fine...but it's definately not his first choice of decor! You also have to be firm about them making sure they put their things away. Making sure they cover the outlets again. Not leaving drinks laying around, or cleaners or toilet lids up, closing doors, etc. :-) Most of it is common sense but if they aren't in the habit it can be very stressful!
* If you have children...they will be effected...no matter how easy-going they are!. I kind of laughed when they told me that the main reason why people are not successful with child care in their home is because of their children. I now say AMEN to that. My "problems" derive from my own children not those I care for. Just be aware and act accordingly.
* Consider whether you are going to do more than just babysitting. So many do only "babysitting" and it's so sad. These are their "learning years" and they are sponges! Think about your philosophy and what you would like to offer.
* Consider that the majority of the children that need care are infants and toddlers. Also, consider that when you have a mixed group...you can NOT leave out the smaller itemed toys because of the younger children so you'll need to think of how you are going to challenge the older children. I have a drawer in a separate bedroom with "special" items that they can bring out to the table but must put back away into the drawer.
* I have found that young children do not "play" for more than 45 minutes without problems arising :-) So we have a schedule. I'd be glad to share it with you if you are interested. Just email.
* Will you be licensed for 6 or for 12? This does make a difference...just something to consider.
* What type of outdoor equipment do you have or need. How is it set up? Do you need a fence around it? (Depends on where you live or if there is a body of water...all in your licensing requirements). How are you going to store it all? I see some people that leave all their outdoor toys out all the time and it's a disaster to look at and the children will not play with it. Better to have storage and rotate what items are out.
* Find a good tax preparer! You can claim quite a bit. Keep a "journal" of miles and time.

Oh, I could go on :-) If you have specific questions I'd be glad to answer them.

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Tips for babysitting 6 children with a friend?

Q. Hi I am 15 years old and I was asked to babysit 6 children, and to ask a friend. I asked my family friend who is 19 years old so both of us will be babysitting the kids.
The ages are 7, 5.5, two 4.5, 2.5, and 10 months old.
Only two of the kids are girls.
Supposedly they are all easy children.

Any tips to handling everyone? Activities we could do to keep the busy, etc? How to stay organized?

A. First of all, I would split up the kids. For instance, I would take the kids that are 4.5-7 (all of whom should be more independent), and I'd ask the other sitter to take the 2.5 year old and the 10 month old. You could also ask the other sitter to take the 4.5 year old, leaving you with the 5 and 7 year olds. Or vice versa (you could take the younger ones). I prefer caring for the older children, so I have listed for you the way I would go about this.

If you are caring for the infant and the toddler, you'll want to make sure that you are watching them around the clock, and keeping them happy. Play with toys, get down on the floor, be interactive.

For the older kids...it really varies on "handling them". Do these children get along with one another? That is usually the biggest problem...sibling rivalry. I usually bring along with me board games, crafts, and maybe a ball.

This one ball can be used for indoor games like monkey in the middle, silent ball, or even hot potato; and also the typical outdoor games. Crafts can be whatever you want to make out of them. With that many children, I'd keep it simple. I bought a great "Spin Art" kit from Meijer which was a huge hit. I also like the "Color Wonder" paints (no mess!), though crafts are endless in possibilities.

How will the weather be? With four kids, tag is great. As is hide and seek (which can also be played indoors). Then of course there are the typical outdoor games (Football, etc.). Ride bikes, shoot hoops, possibly put together a scavenger hunt.

Also if you are indoors with the older kids, you could always make a fort! They normally LOVE that!

Of course keep all of the children fed and well cared for. If this runs into the evening, I usually would bring the kids in and calm them down an hour or two before bed time. Watch a movie. That is a great way for the kids to unwind and get prepared for bed. Read books to any children that request it, and get them to bed! Once they are sleeping soundly, enjoying the rest of the evening for yourself, but be sure to check on the kids frequently.

Best of luck, and have fun!!!

~ Kris

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We will be having a fun day to mark the end of the school year. I need ideas for infant and toddler fun day?

Q. I work at Early Head Start and we are limited in what we can do. Last year we did a carnival day and the year before that we had a Luau. We can't think of an easy theme for this year..any ideas?
we are required to have a fun day theme.

A. Have a "Beach Day" or "Water Play Day"
This is assuming you have an adequate outdoor area, of course.

Set out a few wading pools, water sprinklers, slides, etc. The children will bring their bathing suits,towels and sunscreen and just enjoy a day outdoors in a less-structured environment. Have a sand table with lots of digging toys available; a small tub of sand with seashells; a bubble center, and so on. You can have a picnic-style lunch with popsicles.

Not a whole lot of work in terms of decorations, props, etc. but loads of fun for the kids.

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what to know before buying a cat in the UK?

Q. I'm looking to buy a kitten as a pet, from a breeder.
However, I don't want to take any chances so I need to know EVERYTHING you need to look for when buying the kitten, such as seeing the parents and visiting them at least once.
I'm not having much luck so if someone could tell me or give a link to something?
if theres something special about the breeds, its a tonkinese or an oriental shorthair I'm planning on getting.
thank you. :)

A. Do research on the breed of cat you are considering, and investigate the pedigree if your new pet (family member) has a family history of disease. I recommend finding out all you can about the breeds habits; example: is the breed playful- this could be helpful if you want your new family member to be good with children.
Ask yourself questions and know what the answer is before you decide to bring home a new family member, questions to ask yourself.
Do I want an indoor-outdoor cat? Or - Do I want an indoor only cat? The answer could determine how long your new family member lives (usually indoor cats live longer).
Can I afford vet bills?
I like my furniture and curtains more than I would like my new family member, as cats (especially as
kittens) can destroy curtains, furniture, rugs, bedspreads, and much more.
Is there any person in my household who may be allergic to my new family member?
Can I tolerate my new family member shedding its hair everywhere?
Do I want my new family member to be male or female?

Male cats have been known to require special diets or food because cheaper foods can cause a build up of particles in their uretha, which makes them unable to urinate due to a blockage, this is deadly to the cat unless surgery is done to remove the blockage, to prevent the blockage from happening again the cat will require an expensive special diet or cat food most likely that has to be purchased from the vet's office.
Indoor cats can live many years, my sister-in-law's cat was 25 years old when he passed, it was very sad.
Do you have any other family members (dogs, etc) that will not tolerate the new family member?
Do you plan on having your new family member declawed (please don't do this if the cat will be outdoors, other cats will win a cat fight if they have all of their claws).
Can you deal with the odor of the cat box?
Can you clean the cat box DAILY, this is a task that should be done daily or twice per day and make your new family member much happier.
If a catbox gets too full, the cat will start going other places in the home.
Other family members (dogs) will possibly start "doing what comes natural" in the same place the new family member will go to do the "natural" business as other family members have a very sensitive nose.
Something you probably already know, cats don't listen or follow rules easily and tend to do what ever they want to do, sleep, eat, play, then sleep, eat, play..sometimes they won't want anything to do with you at all.
What ever you decide as long as you are prepared for your new family member, give him or her attetion when ever you can, cats love to lay in your lap, or on top of your head when you are trying to sleep. Cats by instinct seek heat, and will crawl under the covers with you, sometimes a cat will seem as though you are the last person they want anything to do with, other times they will not leave you alone. If they want attention from you and you give it to him or her they will let you know they appreciate your affection by a warm vibrating purrrrr.

Only a couple of other things to think about, and one of them is very important! If there is or will be an infant in the home, wait to get the cat! If you are pregnant, don't handle the cat box. Some cats will catch bugs and mice, and some will just watch them "walk on by." Strings are great toys as well as balls, make sure you don't leave a string around when they are by their self, they could try to swallow the string, and for a ball make sure it is big enough not to be swallowed.
Teach your cat (if you can) to stay off of the kitchen and table areas (they have been in the catbox).
I wish you well in your decision, and if you do get a new family member I hope you will both be happy. There are many cats in shelters, or cats born from a litter needing a new home, which they will beleive is their home, and you are there to take care of her and her home (or him).

I know you said you were considering getting a cat from a breeder, if you do PLEASE ASK TO SEE THE LIVING CONDITIONS OF WHERE THE CAT CAME FROM!
I don't want to give breeders a bad name, I'm sure there are many good breeders, however unfortunately there are bad breeders as well.
When you get a cat from a breeder I think there is a huge chance of disease, feline leukemia, peritonitis, distemper, diabetes, AIDS, and herpes as well as many others.

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What should I do for Christmas this year?

Q. My kids already have to many toys and clothes. I was thinking of getting them a laptop but hubby veto that idea.

How does new bedroom furniture sound? I could fix up their rooms (which would most likely be a better idea as I plan to sell the house next year)
We did just take a trip to Louisiana but I could take them to my Dad's Lake house.

My kids play ball and catch but not to good at sports they are only 4 yrs, 2 yrs and 5 months old

A. So you have an infant to a 4 year old and aren't going to do Christmas for them because "they have enough all ready". I'm sorry but I think it's a bad idea all the way around.
Taking a trip or redoing their rooms at that age is not going to be appreciated. Kids want things they can unwrap and play with not furniture they have to "keep nice" or a trip that they may never remember taking years later. Besides, if you're moving anyway, why sink all the money into redoing any room when you won't be living there and the new owner is likely to change it anyway after they move in.

Your best bit is to go through all the toys they don't play with anymore and donate them long before Christmas. If they are broke or have critical missing pieces, throw them away. Clothing, if you can't reuse it as hand me downs for your younger children and it has no sentimental value to you then donate it as well if it is free of severe wear and stains.

Buy them some new books. New clothing or PJ's for Christmas. Get some toys like an art center, something for outside rather than inside if you are over run in the house. How about new toy boxes with their names on them for their rooms to keep their personal things in? get some board games for kids that are in their age range to play together.
My son has oodles of indoor things to play with but for his birthday in March instead of telling people "don't buy him toys he has too much all ready" we just told them "outdoor toys, swim items for summer or books". Kids like things they can have and open. When they are this young it is more important to them. As for stockings you could always put in some treats, new crayons, coloring books, tub toys (throw out worn out ones that you have at home), things that can go in the car to amuse them with a tote with their name on them to keep in the car with their car toys.

A laptop at their age is a bad idea. It would end up broken and would be a waste for them at their age.

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What do you recommend to get a Daycare started?

Q. How many employees should I have? I need books, sleeping mats, food, toy's, outdoor gym, cribs, playpins, highchairs, eating table etc. Give me some other ideas.

A. Day Care Center or Day Care Group Home or Day Care Family home? A big difference. As an individual who has worked in child care for over 10 years I've done the center route and am doing the family child care route presently. My husband and I also have looked into opening a center. Check with your State rules and Regulations.

In Michigan the child-teacher ratio for child care is 1:4 for infants and toddlers, 1:10 for preschool and I believe 1:12 for school-agers. That should help with your question about employers.

Beyond equipment...think philosophy...what is your philosophy regarding early childhood education. Create a handbook of policies and stick with it!

Some food for thought: The quality of a preschool and the quality of a childcare/preschool should be NO different. Consider incorporating a high-quality preschool program.

Consider education...how much do you have? Does it meet state guidelines? How much does your employees have?

Advertisement... using the classifieds in the newspaper will get you EVERYONE and especially problem families. Word of mouth is best... consider having an "open house".

You will definately need a schedule for each classroom... it will be fine tuned as you go along...but there should be a variation of activities provided and areas for quiet play and large motor play. Consider centers in older toddler on up.

Oh the list goes on. Hope this helps!

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Is it right to keep a 4year old out off nursery?

Q. My 4year old started nursery about 6months ago but hates it and never wants to go he's also been naughty since he started there! In sept he starts full time in the infants,do u think its wrong to keep him out of nursery until he starts big school?

A. nursery is a good setting for preparing for school.

many kids don't like the separation from their parents initially. but after a few days or weeks, they get used to the idea. and they enjoy spending time playing with other kids, doing stuff they wouldn't get to do at home.

if you take him out of nursery, he will miss this chance, and might spend the first few weeks of school getting over the separation upset, missing education.

that said, there is no reason he has to stay in that nursery. my son went to 3 different nurseries when he was small. the first was near my home, but too far from work. it was a nice place, just too far away.

the second was nearer work, but useless. they had new staff every other week, they yelled at kids for playing with the wrong toys, the kids were often bored...

then after another house move, we found a really good nursery.

as we left the village one sunday, heading in the direction of nursery, my son asked if he "could play with the childrens today?"

i would have a look around at some different nurseries. maybe one with smaller class groups, or more outdoor activities.

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