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Alyssa V
Before I begin, my almost 4 yr old daughter has been through a world of change in the past year. A new baby brother, a divorce, having two houses to live in now, a new daycare.... now she is out of control and I've tried everything:
the reward system
bribery
ignoring her outbursts
time-out
spanking
giving her more responsibility around the house to make her feel like she's helping out more
taking toys and privledges away
showering her with my undivided attention
remaining calm in the face of her all out tantrums
even doing simple things like asking how her day was.
She is kicking, hitting, stealing toys, screaming at the daycare lady, fighting, refusing to move when told, not eating... you name it. I just dont know what else to try outisde of toddler military school (too bad they dont exist). she even laughs at me now when i'm discussing with her why it's important to behave.
i just want to know if there is another way to deal with this that i havent yet thought of? I'm almost to the point of taking her to therapy since she isnt listening to her father or i anymore and if she cant learn to behave, we will lose our daycare spot (which is cheaper than anything anywhere else and the only place with openings for all 3 of my kids) My oldest is 6 and hasn't really changed at all personality wise and luckily for me my infant is a saint! but my daughter who i love with all my heart and who is my only girl is driving me bananas!
any ideas?
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I know you tried all of these great ideas, but over what period of time? In my experience and experience with my nieces and nephews, consistency is what is needed the most. I know she has been though a lot. I've been there as a parent too but you have to make sure you stay extremely consistent with your punishment, don't make excuses for her behavior at any times and be firm with your decisions and punishments. And one thing that worked great for me was a prize bag, a simple gift bag that I filled with a few toys and stickers etc.. They couldn't ask for the prizes the prizes were only awarded for when I caught them being good and doing things that they hadn't been asked to do. I wish you luck. I know this is a very challenging and stressful time.
I know you tried all of these great ideas, but over what period of time? In my experience and experience with my nieces and nephews, consistency is what is needed the most. I know she has been though a lot. I've been there as a parent too but you have to make sure you stay extremely consistent with your punishment, don't make excuses for her behavior at any times and be firm with your decisions and punishments. And one thing that worked great for me was a prize bag, a simple gift bag that I filled with a few toys and stickers etc.. They couldn't ask for the prizes the prizes were only awarded for when I caught them being good and doing things that they hadn't been asked to do. I wish you luck. I know this is a very challenging and stressful time.
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REWRITE THIS ENTIRE ESSAY. do not talk about how the award or getting into the college will help you in life. just talk about YOU. BE YOURSELF. TALK ABOUT WHAT YOUR PASSIONS ARE. STOP TALKING ABOUT POLITICS AND THE GENERAL PUBLIC. TALK ABOUT THE "SPECIFIC" THINGS YOU DO THAT SHOW YOUR PASSION. LIKE YOU WOULD ALWAYS TAP YOUR MOM'S SHOULDER AND POINT TO THE PLASTIC STETHOSCOPE WHENEVER YOU WERE AT THE TOY STORE
REWRITE THIS ENTIRE ESSAY. do not talk about how the award or getting into the college will help you in life. just talk about YOU. BE YOURSELF. TALK ABOUT WHAT YOUR PASSIONS ARE. STOP TALKING ABOUT POLITICS AND THE GENERAL PUBLIC. TALK ABOUT THE "SPECIFIC" THINGS YOU DO THAT SHOW YOUR PASSION. LIKE YOU WOULD ALWAYS TAP YOUR MOM'S SHOULDER AND POINT TO THE PLASTIC STETHOSCOPE WHENEVER YOU WERE AT THE TOY STORE
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