Thursday, April 25, 2013

Please help.. My 14 months old daughter is delayed, autism?

Q. My 14 months old daughter is delayed in her social skills and fine motor skills. She is not waiving, not clapping, not pointing, not self feeding. She will sometimes show where my eyes are or mouth, when I ask her, and she will look at a picture on the wall when I ask where the picture is. But she rarely pays any attention to me or anyone else. She loves to play with all her toys, but she doesn't do anything repeatedly (like pushing the same button over and over). When I talk to her or ask her something she ignores me, and continues to do what she was doing like playing with her toy or watching tv. When she watches her cartoons and I get in front of her to get her attention she completely ignores me like I'm a see-through ghost. I'm worried sick.. Has anyone had a kid who was delayed in these areas (waiving, paying attention to mommy, pointing etc), and now are older and normal? Or is she for sure has an autism. I've convinced myself that she does and can't stop panicing. I will make an apt with the neurologist tomorrow, and I was told by an Early Intervention program that she is significantly delayed in her social skills and fine motor skills such as picking up small cereal and putting them in her mouth. (she doesn't do that at all). She seems like normal happy baby to me, she loves it when I sing to her, she looks directly at me into my eyes when I sing, or when I do silly games. She loves pikaboo games and runs to me on her walker when I call her all excited. But when I talk to her most of the time ignores me. I would love to hear from someone who went through this and their kid turned out fine. Some words of encouragement also would help :( thank you so much. I am so afraid of what the neurologist would say. It seems like 100% of normal kids do all these things. If I can just find one who didn't do these things and turned out normal, I could breath just a little easier. Thanks again!
About vaccines etc.. We are on dr. Sears vaccine schedules and we haven't even gotten everything she needs. So I really don't think this could be from vaccines we are being very careful about them.

A. You are right to be concerned, but don't worry about this until you have done some homework and researched the issue. There is a wonderful web site you can visit to see the symptoms and what is being done to not only help autistic children but what can be done to prevent it.

Go to: www.childhoodshots.com

Mary Tocco has been researching vaccines for 30 years and has a volume of information on this subject. Her daughter, Rene Tocco, is the doctor that has dedicated her practice to AUTISM and that is the web site above. Many of the problems children are having today are a result of what is being done to the children in doctor's offices and the food they are eating and the lack of information on good breast feeding, etc.

Become educated, not indoctrinated.

EDIT: NO child needs ANY vaccine. It is a very well known documented fact that children who do not get vaccinated are far healthier and grow up much more healthy. Believe what you will about vaccines, but those promoting it is relying on indoctrination and distortion of the facts, not educated facts.

EDIT: Here's a wonderful article for you to read to get a better in depth understanding of why vaccines are causing many of the problems your child is experiencing.

http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2010/11/01/flu-vaccine-and-its-side-effects.aspx

Dr. Sears is just spreading the poisons over longer time between getting the poison injections. Infants and babies should NOT be receiving these injections at all. Look at the evidence to learn the truth. Pediatricians were invented to inject poisons and nothing more. The well baby visits is just an injection party, nothing more.

If you are still in doubt about this, watch Dr. Maurice Hilleman that was the Number 1 vaccine expert, researcher, and developer of over 40 popular vaccines talk about the "Bargain Basement Technology" vaccines are in this confidential interview:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=edikv0zbAlU

Now watch this video showing the probity of the Bayer Pharmaceutical that makes aspirin for the world and how they view PROFIT over HEALTH:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wg-52mHIjhs&feature=related

Is it no wonder the public has started to reject what these guys are promoting?

Drug companies would have you believe their technology saved the world of disease, but nothing is farther from the truth. Look at this study on small pox that drug companies tell you they eradicated:

http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2000/12/31/smallpox-vaccine-part-one.aspx

http://articles.mercola.com/sites/articles/archive/2000/12/31/smallpox-vaccine2.aspx

Babies are being damaged by these corporations that are promoting this farce. BIG MONEY is being made by them. In fact drug companies make 5 times the profit of any U.S. corporation and politicians get a huge amount of this. This is why the recent Health Care Law funnels so much money directly to them. Both Republicans and Democrats are to blame and the public is getting the booby prize. And the worst part is that children are the victims.

good luck to you


Could we afford a baby with what we have?
Q. My husband and I are madly madly in love. Were young 22 and 23 years old. But we wanted to do things young. We married at 21 and 23 and want our first Child at 23 and 25.

My husband and I agreed that I should stay at home.
In Michigan GOOD quality childcare cost about 1k a month for good care. On top of, I want to raise my child, not have a stranger do it.

Here is what we have going for us.
My husband and I own a 3 bedroom 1.5 bathroom house with about 1300 Square feet of living space.-800 dollar mortgage

Health Insurance- We have the Blue Care network-Healthy Blue.
We have a Zero deductible and only a 10 dollar Co-pay for Doctor visits and 30 co pay for emergency room visits.

My car is paid off and his car will be paid off in December of 2010. 280 a month car payment.

However we do have about 8K in student loans and credit card payments.

My husband brings home between 2700-3500 a month depending on his commission.

Advice??
I always shop Second hand. Platos closet here in michigan is My FAV store.
I bought a pair of BCBG shoes for 14 dollars.

I work with kids now but get paid penny's to what my husband makes. My husband is still young and is Climbing up the Ladder at his work. We have alot of love for each other and Praise God that when we wake up, we have another beautiful day to live in his glory!
I always shop Second hand. Platos closet here in michigan is My FAV store.
I bought a pair of BCBG shoes for 14 dollars.

I work with kids now but get paid penny's to what my husband makes. My husband is still young and is Climbing up the Ladder at his work. We have alot of love for each other and Praise God that when we wake up, we have another beautiful day to live in his glory!

A. You are so cute! I'm happy you are so in love!!
Oh honey you'll be more than okay to have a child. :) And let me tell you how you can save tons of money:

*Breastfeed exclusively, no bottles/pumps. As a SAHM that is easy!! And formula can cost upwards of $1200 a year!!!! Breastfed babies are also healthier overall, costing less in medical visits and prescriptions.

*Cloth diaper. You save THOUSANDS of dollars, and they can be used with future children as well. Also, there are many new modern types out there that are easy as anything, like this:
http://www.cottonbabies.com/product_info.php?cPath=28&products_id=1279
I switched to cloth when my daughter was 14 months, and I'm SO happy! :)

*Do baby-led weaning. Not only do you save money by offering real foods and not jarred stuff, but a baby who feeds herself eats exactly how much she needs. Purees are also completely unnecessary, since babies mash food with their gums. :)

*Buy secondhand or sale items. Our crib is convertible to a toddler bed and a double bed, and only cost $200. Our changing table is also a large dresser, and only cost $200. I've seen cribs sold for nearly $2000!! RIDICULOUS. I also found great toys, onesies, and blankets at yard sales for dirt cheap.

*Consider babywearing. A great sling or wrap costs far less than the average "travel system." It's also very beneficial for baby's physical, mental, and emotional development, not to mention allows mommy to go about her business.

*Speaking of carseats, get a convertible one. It will see your child into toddlerhood and beyond, depending on the type you buy, while you have to buy a new seat after 20 lbs if you get an infant carseat!


Help with Greek translation needed.?
Q. Hi. We are traveling to Greece with our baby this summer and I need help translating some phrases from English to Greek. These phrases are all related to my baby and when I say 'her' or 'she' it refers to my daughter. Anything in parenthesis is for clarification and does not need to be translated to Greek. I know there are a lot of phrases here, so please translate whichever phrases you can. You can also email me at almasykusnyir@yahoo.com if you prefer. Thanks!

I need to change her clothes.
I need to change her diaper.
Her diaper is dirty.
Where can I change her diaper?
I need to buy diapers.
What size are these diapers?
I don’t know if they (diapers) will fit her.
I need to buy wipes (disposable baby wipes).
She is tired.
She needs to take a nap.
She is asleep.
Please be quiet (because the baby is sleeping).
Please do not wake her.
She is hungry.
I need to feed her.
I did not bring enough food for the baby.
I need to buy food for the baby (baby food / baby formula).
She cannot eat that.
She eats infant formula (baby formula).
She eats baby food (jarred pureed baby food).
I did not breastfeed her (when she was born).
I do not breastfeed her (now).
This is her bottle (baby bottle).
This bottle (baby bottle) is dirty.
I need to clean her bottle (baby bottle).
She wants her pacifier.
I need to clean her pacifier with water.
Her pacifier fell (to the ground).
Can we bring the stroller there?
Is there an elevator?
We will need to carry the stroller up the stairs.
We will need to carry the stroller down the stairs.
I cannot take the stroller there (due to access).
I will carry her (in my arms).
He will carry her (in his arms).
Can you carry her? (in your arms)
Can you hold her for a moment?
Where can I put the stroller?
I do not want to take the baby there.
Is it safe for a baby to go there?
Please be careful (with the baby, ex. to a child who is being too rough with her).
When I was pregnant I was very sick.
I had very severe nausea and vomiting (during pregnancy).
I was sick for the first five months (of the pregnancy).
She was born on 15 August 2009.
She was born at 10:22 pm.
We were excited that she was born on a Greek holiday (15 August).
I had to have a caesarian section (c-section).
My blood pressure became very high so they had to take the baby out right away.
She weighed 2.7 kilograms (when she was born).
She was born a few weeks early.
She was small but healthy (at birth).
She is almost one year old (now).
She weighs 8 kilograms (now).
She does not feel well.
Her teeth hurt (due to teething).
She has a fever.
She will not stop crying.
I do not know why she is crying.
I need medicine for the baby.
I cannot give her aspirin.
Do you have Tylenol for babies?
She has an allergy.
She is too young (for that).
I do not want her to get sunburned.
The baby is too hot (temperature due to weather).
It is too sunny (here) for the baby.
Can we sit in the shade?
She looks like her father.
When she was born she looked exactly like her father.
I do not think she looks like me.
She does not have much hair yet.
It will grow eventually (her hair).
My mother died on 22 February 2010.
She will not remember her grandmother.
My mother was very excited to have a grandchild.
My father loves her very much (the baby).
He (grandfather) buys many clothes and toys for her (the baby).
We want to have another baby soon.
I would like to have another girl, but a boy would be fun too.
We would like to have 2 or 3 children.
Many of our friends have babies and young children.
She will have many friends to play with when she is older.
She will not remember this visit to Greece but we will have photographs to show her.
We will bring her back to Greece in a few years.
On our next visit to Greece we will probably have another baby.
This is her bedroom (being shown in a photograph).
Her bedroom walls are painted purple (being shown in a photograph).
We are traveling with a baby.
She must sit in her car seat.
We cannot move the car seat.
She cannot sit on your lap (during a car ride).
Please write in Greek text, not English letters. Thank you so much for your assistance with this project whether you translate one phrase or more!!!

A. I need to change her clothes.
Πρέπει να αλλάξω τα ρούχα της.

I need to change her diaper.
Πρέπει να αλλάξω πάνα της.

Her diaper is dirty.
Πάνα της είναι βρώμικο.

Where can I change her diaper?
Πού μπορώ να αλλάξω πάνα της;

I need to buy diapers.
Πρέπει να αγοράσω πάνες.

What size are these diapers?
Τι μέγεθος είναι οι πάνες;

Disposable diapers.
Πάνες μιας χρήσης

Those diapers are not her size.
Αυτές οι πάνες δεν είναι το μέγεθος της.

I need to buy wipes (disposable baby wipes).
Πρέπει να αγοράσω πετσετάκια μωρών.

She is tired.
Είναι κουρασμένη.

She needs to take a nap.
Χρειάζεται να πάρω έναν υπνάκο

She is asleep.
Κοιμάται.

She is hungry.
Είναι πεινασμένος


I need to feed her.
Θέλω να την τροφή.

I did not bring enough food for the baby.
Εγώ δεν φέρνει αρκετή τροφή για το μωρό.

I need to buy food for the baby (baby food / baby formula).
Πρέπει να αγοράσω τροφή για το μωρό.

She cannot eat that.
Δεν μπορεί να φάει αυτό.

She eats infant formula (baby formula).
Τρώει τύπος μωρό.

She eats baby food (jarred pureed baby food).
Τρώει βάζα παιδικές τροφές.

I do not breastfeed her (now).
Εγώ δεν θηλάζουν της.

This is her bottle (baby bottle).
Αυτό είναι το μπουκάλι της.

This bottle (baby bottle) is dirty.
Αυτό το μπουκάλι είναι βρώμικο.

I need to clean her bottle (baby bottle).
Θα πρέπει να πλένετε το μπουκάλι.

Can we bring the stroller there?
Μπορούμε να φέρουμε το καρότσι;

We will need to carry the stroller up the stairs.
Πρέπει να φέρουν το καρότσι μέχρι τις σκάλες.

We will need to carry the stroller down the stairs.
Πρέπει να φέρουν το πορτ μπεμπέ κάτω από τις σκάλες.


Is there an elevator?
Είναι ένα ασανσέρ εκεί;

I cannot take the stroller there (due to access).
Δεν μπορώ να πάρω το καρότσι εκεί.

I will carry her (in my arms).
Θα την φέρει.

He will carry her (in his arms).
Αυτός θα την φέρει.

Can you carry her? (in your arms)
Μπορείς να μεταφέρουν αυτήν;

Can you hold her for a moment?
Μπορείς να την κρατήσουν για λίγο;

Where can I put the stroller?
Πού μπορώ να τοποθετήσω το καρότσι;

I do not want to bring the baby there.
Δεν θέλω να φέρουν το μωρό εκεί.

When I was pregnant I was very sick.
Ήμουν πολύ άρρωστος όταν ήμουν έγκυος.

Severe nausea and vomiting.
Σοβαρή ναυτία και έμετο.

I was sick for the first five months (of the pregnancy).
Ήμουν άρρωστος κάθε μέρα για τους πρώτους πέντε μήνες της εγκυμοσύνης.

She was born on 15 August 2009.
Γεννήθηκε στις 15 Αυγούστου 2009.

She was born at 10:22 pm.
Γεννήθηκε στις 10:22 το βράδυ.

We were excited that she was born on a Greek holiday (15 August).
Ήμασταν ενθουσιασμένοι που γεννήθηκε σε ένα ελληνικό διακοπές.

I had to have a caesarian section (c-section).
Μου δόθηκε μια καισαρική τομή.

My blood pressure became very high so they had to take the baby out right away.
αρτηριακή πίεση μου έγινε πολύ υψηλό. Οι γιατροί χρειάστηκε να αφαιρέσετε το μωρό αμέσως.

She weighed 2.7 kilograms (when she was born).
Ζύγιζε 2,7 κιλά

She was born a few weeks early.
Γεννήθηκε τρεις εβδομάδες νωρίτερα.

She was small but healthy (at birth).
Ήταν πολύ μικρό, αλλά υγιή.

She is almost one year old (now).
Είναι σχεδόν ενός έτους.

She weighs 8 kilograms (now).
Έχει ζυγίζει 8 κιλά.

She does not feel well.
Δεν αισθάνεται καλά.

Her teeth hurt (due to teething).
Έχει πόνο στο στόμα της.

She is teething.
Είναι οδοντοφυΐας.

She has a fever.
Έχει πυρετό.

She will not stop crying.
Δεν θα σταματήσει να κλαίει.





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